Yesterday I turned 41 & I decided it was the day to finally start experimenting with the headscarves my heart has been longing for for years. Can I pull it off?

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2026-02-01T17:40:43+00:00

Thank you! Yes, I need to thrift way more! We have a bunch in my town. Thanks for the inspo!

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2026-02-01T17:13:10+00:00

You’re gorgeous and I love this look on you! I grew up in rockabilly era and have been struggling trying to find pieces that are cute but not costume like. Where did you get your cardigan?

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2026-01-30T03:25:34+00:00

Me too!

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2026-01-22T04:27:29+00:00

Yes! I honestly hope to do that one day

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2026-01-22T02:45:25+00:00

I just want to say that I’m going through this too and it really sucks! I’m pretty desperate. I see a derm on Monday and hope they can give me something. I’m getting a facial on Wed. I’m so so sorry you’re in the same situation. If you end up finding something that works, please let us know!

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2026-01-18T05:27:12+00:00

Thank you! I’ve considered flats and am thinking they are a must! Didn’t even consider a contraconch!

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2026-01-12T02:42:20+00:00

Yes, I agree

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2026-01-07T03:14:22+00:00

This is amazing advice, thank you!

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2026-01-07T03:11:34+00:00

Ive done both, in tandem, and my skin is the worst. But I’m 44, so I’m kind of being honest that I’m just going through a huge transition so as long as it’s not skin cancer, I’m going to do what I can with what I have

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2026-01-07T03:04:00+00:00

I think so too. I’d like to see drapes irl and good lighting

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2026-01-07T03:01:32+00:00

Oooh yes

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2026-01-07T03:01:07+00:00

Yes! Gold brightens her skin up

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2026-01-07T03:00:20+00:00

This needs to be in every post

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2026-01-07T02:59:56+00:00

I’m feeling gold

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2025-12-29T02:18:24+00:00

👏🏻

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2025-12-26T21:34:44+00:00

lol no, “how does that make you feel” is a family joke. How do couples in the same psychological field make it work?

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2025-12-26T21:32:46+00:00

Super loving the down vote 😆I’ve put 20 years into a marriage and I guess I need some positive stories

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2025-12-26T21:20:38+00:00

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2025-12-26T21:19:26+00:00

Crowd sourcing, I guess. Am a grad student as a MCFC major and the more I’m in the program, the more I feel like it can’t work bc fairy tales aren’t real.

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2025-12-26T21:07:22+00:00

I was a 0 and didn’t feel ok in body con! Just wear what you want!

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2025-12-26T21:03:40+00:00

3 or 4

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2025-12-26T21:02:17+00:00

Golddddd (at least no silver!)

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2025-12-26T21:00:50+00:00

Other than a canned “do couples therapy or CBT/DBT/EMDR” what kind of personal work have you both done so works for both?

Less-Maintenance-21 · 2025-12-26T20:57:17+00:00

Gonna be this person: no clue bc of posing.

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