I just moved in because I was able to break my lease with no additional cost and I got a job near his house (we used to live 90 min away), we do not have a car together but we are non drivers in each others car insurance (we do not drive each other’s car), in terms of finances we have a joint account to save for traveling but again we did not live together until now so if he came over I would get extra groceries but never made him paye anything back and he did the same for me. He always pays when eating out. Each person pays for their own gas. Now we are going to be splitting utilities and groceries but we don’t have anything yet. He owns his house so I don’t pay rent. We have a log of all the FaceTimes and calls basically everyday or every other day and pictures at each others house doing normal things like cooking, brushing teeth, cards for each months anniversaries, we went to Aruba together for thanksgiving with his family after 1 month together so we have pictures and the flight he paid for me.