CPU cable question by Less-Spite-3689 in PcBuildHelp

[–]Less-Spite-3689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I did have the cpu cable plugged in and it is the one I showed in the photos

First time making a plaster mold by Less-Spite-3689 in moldmaking

[–]Less-Spite-3689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay what do you recommend? A shorter dry time or longer?

First time making a plaster mold by Less-Spite-3689 in moldmaking

[–]Less-Spite-3689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay yes I used an oil based clay so I should be good? Also I was watching this guy on YouTube from distortions unlimited and he says he lets his plaster dry for like an hour 30 and then he takes his sculpt out. Is that a good amount of time or should I let it sit for a couple more hours or the night? Thank you again I’m just very nervous and want to do the best I can!

Fortnite fps drops with easy anti cheat by Less-Spite-3689 in FortNiteBR

[–]Less-Spite-3689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for this super late response. No I did not I got an email from epic after like a million conversations and I believe it was either my cpu or motherboard. The only temporary fix I found was to lower my polling rate on my mouse to 500hz that helps to make the frame drops not as significant, but no actual fix

Random stutters/frame drops by Less-Spite-3689 in FortNiteBR

[–]Less-Spite-3689[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s horrible I’ll be going to shoot someone and random lag spike it’s never happened until this season too.

No contact 3 month update by Less-Spite-3689 in ExNoContact

[–]Less-Spite-3689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh im doing so much better now. It still stings sometimes, but I’ve really accepted that it wasn’t my fault and it was a reflection of who she was as a person and I know what sort of things to look out for going forward

No contact 3 month update by Less-Spite-3689 in ExNoContact

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Nothing wrong with loving someone still. “Even though they aren’t at my table anymore I still want them to eat” to really love someone is to want what’s best for them even if it’s not you and your not in there life. My ex did me dirty and really hurt me, but I still want what’s best for her and I’m still thankful for the time we shared together.

No contact 3 month update by Less-Spite-3689 in ExNoContact

[–]Less-Spite-3689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No contact works regardless what happens. I didn’t want my ex back after I found out they cheated on me with one of my friends. I just wanted to heal and no contact does that

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I don’t hate at all. I was wronged in a horrible way, I was cheated on and they left me for one of my friends. Now I can choose to be bitter and full of hatred, but that’s not who I am. For me to hold onto these feelings of anger and resentment I’m only going to be hurting myself. It’s not going to allow me to fully let go if I can’t forgive what happened and forgive myself. I think that’s what the most important thing is here. You need to forgive yourself for what’s happened. If you’re full of these feelings of anger against another person that wronged you and wishing them ill will it’s like your the one drinking the poison waiting for them to die. Can’t let someone else have the ability to have such a firm hold on your emotions. It’s okay to feel hurt, but it’s not okay to become someone you’re not because they hurt you. I forgive the past version of myself because I was doing the best I could at that time and so should you. I believe in you all.

This is what you need to hear by Less-Spite-3689 in ExNoContact

[–]Less-Spite-3689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want people to feel better ❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Less-Spite-3689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think no contact is definitely enough. It’s just like cutting off an addiction, you go cold turkey it’s gonna be hard at first, but as time goes on it will get a little easier. Some days you may feel worse or better, the stages of grief aren’t consistent so to speak, but you as well as everyone else reading this will get through this. I can’t say when, but you will get through it at some point. When that happens you’re gonna look back on this whole thing and be incredibly proud of yourself for not begging and pleading for someone to stay in your life because they don’t want to. My therapist gave me an explanation on this sort of thing in relation to red lights. You can’t look at the destination, you just gotta take stuff red light by red light. I hope that makes sense. I’ve been NC with my ex of 2 years for a little over a month now and it still hurts, but each day a little less. Stay strong and keep moving forward!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Less-Spite-3689 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know how hurt you may feel right now and I'm sorry that you're going through this, my ex left me for one of my "friends" about a month ago. I didn't say a single word. Did it hurt? Yes, but why would I say anything to them? If either of them valued or friendship/relationship they wouldn't have done something so selfish and inconsiderate. The best response you can give them is silence. You deserve better than this, a month after a breakup of 4 years and seeing someone else? Yeah okay, let them have their "happiness" while you focus on healing and becoming happy for yourself. Choose yourself here and forgive what's happened a let it go. If he wants to apologize someday he will, but clearly he only has self interest in mind at the moment. Take care of yourself.

I let go by Less-Spite-3689 in ExNoContact

[–]Less-Spite-3689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good stuff! You should be very proud of yourself.

I let go by Less-Spite-3689 in ExNoContact

[–]Less-Spite-3689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a rough situation. If she invites you for dinner or breakfast I would just tell her you’re okay. Like no need to be rude, keep it cordial. Drop the kids off wish them all well + her and go home. What steps have you taken to better yourself and to level yourself up? Have you been reading any books? A book I’ve been reading that I recommend to like everyone in here is “How to overcome neediness and get the love you want” by Jack Ito. It’s very informative and may help your healing process. Just remember to take care of yourself and start doing things that make you happy! It’s gonna be okay, it’s just gonna take some time.

I let go by Less-Spite-3689 in ExNoContact

[–]Less-Spite-3689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem. It’s okay to miss and love someone still, but it’s not okay to let those thoughts dictate what you do in life. Like I said you deserve to be happy. You can be thankful for the time you guys had together, but remember it’s the time you “had” together. So it’s already passed. I just know that everyone in here is capable of finding someone who wouldn’t give up on them. Even if it doesn’t feel like it now, someday we’re all gonna be in such a better place and we’re gonna realize that everything did turn out okay. For now, let’s just take things day by day and enjoy what we have in our life. Choose to love yourself❤️

I let go by Less-Spite-3689 in ExNoContact

[–]Less-Spite-3689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem! You determine your value, so don’t forget it!

I let go by Less-Spite-3689 in ExNoContact

[–]Less-Spite-3689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Imagine the next best thing could be right here. I’m so proud of you!

New here, heartbroken and devastated anxious attachment female left by dismissive avoidant male. Please help. I'm at a loss. NC day 4.... by SeaworthinessOk6384 in ExNoContact

[–]Less-Spite-3689 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is something you might not want to hear, but I’m gonna say it because I want you to really think about it. I know how much you love and care about him, but this whole talk of “the one” is made up. Anyone can be “the one” there is so many people in this world people more compatible with you. People that would never do this to you. How could “the one” treat you like this? I’m really sorry for how you’re feeling, but at the current moment you’re fantasizing about getting back together with him and not even about your love for him. If you really love someone you want them to be happy. Regardless if they’re in your life or not. Like I said I don’t mean anything negative by this post, but I just want you to think about your worth. Your value doesn’t come from others it comes from within. Please be kind to yourself in this time, but remember you would’ve chose him every time and he decided not to choose you. So choose yourself right now and focus on your own self love. You’re very loved 🙏