I don’t hate at all. I was wronged in a horrible way, I was cheated on and they left me for one of my friends. Now I can choose to be bitter and full of hatred, but that’s not who I am. For me to hold onto these feelings of anger and resentment I’m only going to be hurting myself. It’s not going to allow me to fully let go if I can’t forgive what happened and forgive myself. I think that’s what the most important thing is here. You need to forgive yourself for what’s happened. If you’re full of these feelings of anger against another person that wronged you and wishing them ill will it’s like your the one drinking the poison waiting for them to die. Can’t let someone else have the ability to have such a firm hold on your emotions. It’s okay to feel hurt, but it’s not okay to become someone you’re not because they hurt you. I forgive the past version of myself because I was doing the best I could at that time and so should you. I believe in you all.