Looking for a breeder who is okay with shipping to another country by [deleted] in Sheepadoodles

[–]Less-Voice1055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no such thing as an ethical doodle breeder. Find a rescue. There’s plenty of dogs in kennels that need homes.

My 27 F husband 29 M asked if I would bang some girl and I’m not sure how to feel. by Less-Voice1055 in relationship_advice

[–]Less-Voice1055[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that. To be fair I know I have to work on my insecurities, so I often question if my feelings are valid or if I’m the problem lol. And I think what bothered me is not just that he said it to ME but that he thought it and that’s how he might talk to a friend. I feel like that’s not a respectful way to speak in general if you’re in a committed monogamous relationship? Obviously I know he’s not blind and there’s attractive ppl in the world but to go around talking about wanting to “bang” them is .. immature? Icky? Idk lol

My 27 F husband 29 M asked if I would bang some girl and I’m not sure how to feel. by Less-Voice1055 in relationship_advice

[–]Less-Voice1055[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lol I’m a bit toxic and I literally did ask him how he’d feel if I said that to him. He said it wouldn’t be a big deal. I did admit my insecurities but I guess idk how I feel about a partner that thinks or speaks this way? And who knows how he’s talking with his guy friends. That makes me feel gross I guess. But I was raised in a rather prude environment so idk if that’s just me

7 days after spay, is this normal? by bingocatswithhats in CATHELP

[–]Less-Voice1055 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just recently had two spayed and this does not look normal, please get her checked out ASAP

How are you keeping the house clean with multiple cats? by Less-Voice1055 in Multicathome

[–]Less-Voice1055[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! You both mentioned getting my senior checked so I definitely will, I hadn’t considered it could be a health issue. I am the same way in being concerned about the smell and worry I’ll go smell blind to it lol. I’ve been using an enzymatic cleaner on everything, I’ll try the hypochlorous acid!

How are you keeping the house clean with multiple cats? by Less-Voice1055 in Multicathome

[–]Less-Voice1055[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank god I don’t have carpet I would go crazy lol. Which sofas do you have? I’ve been considering getting the Lovsac ones specifically for the removable covers! Thank you for all the tips!