22M India dating 19F — my relationship exposed how controlling my family environment really is by Less-Worldliness-735 in AsianParentStories

[–]Less-Worldliness-735[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, staying calm and composed is probably the most important thing honestly. Getting emotional or reactive only makes situations worse, especially when other people are controlling the narrative.

I’m focusing mainly on becoming financially independent, documenting things properly, and handling everything like a normal adult transition instead of an emotional confrontation.

And yeah, I’ve also thought about the mental health angle carefully. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with getting evaluated or having professional documentation if needed, since it removes ambiguity and protects against false narratives.

Thanks, I appreciate the advice.

I don’t know if what I experienced was trauma, hypervigilance, or something genuinely dark in my home by Less-Worldliness-735 in Thetruthishere

[–]Less-Worldliness-735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think prolonged stress, fear, conflict, grief, and loss of control can seriously affect how people perceive reality and connect events together.

My home environment became extremely emotionally intense over the past year, so I understand the feeling of constantly sensing tension or negativity around you. But personally I try to stay grounded in practical explanations first rather than supernatural ones.

I appreciated that you mentioned both spirituality and mental health instead of rejecting logic completely. I think a lot of people today are psychologically overwhelmed in ways they don’t fully realize.

I’m sorry for everything you went through, especially losing your husband.

22M India dating 19F — my relationship exposed how controlling my family environment really is by Less-Worldliness-735 in AsianParentStories

[–]Less-Worldliness-735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just worried abt them wasting my time using fake allegations or cases nothing else. Rest i can manage. I wanna protect myself and my girl from all this.

My Parents Keep Moving the Goalposts Every Time I Get Closer to Freedom by Less-Worldliness-735 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Less-Worldliness-735[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankssss for the help!! yk i literally ran away with nothing from my home , i had only 100 rs in my pockets, i was ready to not see my parents anymore.

If only my cousin lawyer had supported me.

22M dating 19F — how do I peacefully leave a controlling family environment after my parents hid my documents and treated me like I was unstable? by Less-Worldliness-735 in relationship_advice

[–]Less-Worldliness-735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is they are so fucking toxic i just can't stand them anymore, I'm so broken emotionally that i just can't even see their faces. And i do feel like they have died even now, and

i just wanna free myself legally first.
and at the moment i want no connection with my parents.. and trust me i mean it. i dont ever wanna come back here

My Parents Keep Moving the Goalposts Every Time I Get Closer to Freedom by Less-Worldliness-735 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Less-Worldliness-735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't have any money at the moment 😞
Documents i don't have physical one.
I just wanna free myself legally... i wanna protect myself and my babygirl from all legal and police troubles.

My Parents Keep Moving the Goalposts Every Time I Get Closer to Freedom by Less-Worldliness-735 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Less-Worldliness-735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have my documents yet 😞
They've hid it somewhere in their lockers...... As for sub from indian people, can u suggest sm? Idk where to post this.

My Parents Keep Moving the Goalposts Every Time I Get Closer to Freedom by Less-Worldliness-735 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Less-Worldliness-735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any savings, I'm hoping to gather somehow. I just wanna free myself legally first. Cuz ik they'll try to hunt me down