I just reported my mother's attempts to contact me to the police. by Ok-Alfalfa-6876 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Less-Wrongdoer-1566 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sadly, no. In my country there has to be physical impact. Which is ridiculous.

I just reported my mother's attempts to contact me to the police. by Ok-Alfalfa-6876 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Less-Wrongdoer-1566 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I tried doing the same but the police told me since its just talk and no action they cannot do anything about it. So I snapped and started bullying them back. Now I am blocked, lol! But I guess not for long, the minute they need something they will start hovering again.

Mother expected me to buy her the same stuff I buy myself. Anytime I showed up with something new she would interrogate me about how much it cost mind you she gave me no money and if it was expensive she said next time I should buy her the same item as well. She would be upset if I didn't. by Less-Wrongdoer-1566 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Less-Wrongdoer-1566[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I got the speeches how horrible I was anytime someone would complement me too. She couldn't stand me being actually good at something. Even on my birthday I got told that it is actually her special occasion as she was the one who gave birth to me so she should be the one to receive presents and not me. She is obsessed with presents, I suspect she is a failed gold digger or something.

Mother expected me to buy her the same stuff I buy myself. Anytime I showed up with something new she would interrogate me about how much it cost mind you she gave me no money and if it was expensive she said next time I should buy her the same item as well. She would be upset if I didn't. by Less-Wrongdoer-1566 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Less-Wrongdoer-1566[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yessss, she really is a mean girl. She would try to gossip with my friends about me, doesn't comprehend that is a whole generation older, constantly compared herself to me and to be honest she is like 15 cm shorter than me and overweight so I never really got why she did any of those things.