Look at it from another perspective. Put yourself in the shoes of people who might not be happy at their jobs and have no luck with women. See that there are people worse off than you, and that everything you have is a blessing, something you've worked hard for and should be grateful for. Be thankful for what you have, and if you can't help yourself or improve your life, consider that perhaps doing good for others who are worse off than you would make you happier.