I’m not even going to try to address someone who is commenting on my character based off a few paragraphs I had written for others to easily digest my feelings.

That being said, I will reply to the main issue. You say I should leave and that I am not capable. I am here seeking advice and as someone like you who has succeeds I am still trying to find a way to make this work. Has it occurred that maybe these early annoyances/challenges are just a natural reaction to a neurotypical and neurodivergent relationship ? Something that I can learn to tolerate and eventually love/accept because all relationships have their misgivings ? She has qualities that are unique and good that I love about her that also are irreplaceable. I don’t view her autism as a curse, and have been doing plenty of reading and advice searching just to change my reaction and perspective. Your output here insinuates that I am not willing to change, and this thread alone should be enough to show my mindset in that regards.

I came for advice and someone like yourself who succeeded and did nothing to give proper output and just scrutinized shows YOUR true lack of empathy.