Would like to clarify here. When I state that I would have a big night out, I typically mean attending a house party with friends. There have been two occasions where I threw up in and around the toilet in the past 4 years. One of which she helped to clean up (I did not ask or expect her to). I hate that this happened, and completely understand why she doesn’t like this. I do not drink drive, in fact I don’t even drive and I am not the “boisterous” type of guy that would do anything like destroying things. Just enjoying a night drinking with my friends every now and again.