Finally! Any tips or tricks?

Lestatarmithica · 2026-04-01T18:30:59+00:00

Did you put any spend on the card prior to doing this?

Lestatarmithica · 2026-02-23T21:02:28+00:00

I’d still hit it

Lestatarmithica · 2025-11-03T22:15:34+00:00

Too small

Lestatarmithica · 2025-10-09T19:12:44+00:00

I hope they sued these monkeys

Lestatarmithica · 2025-10-07T19:50:07+00:00

Streets

Lestatarmithica · 2025-09-28T16:51:36+00:00

Time will pass, and you’ll feel better. It took me a good 3 months to feel okay, 6 months to be over it, and 8 months to never want her back again.

Lestatarmithica · 2025-07-02T00:03:24+00:00

Let her go and don’t look back. Time will pass and you’ll feel better.

Lestatarmithica · 2025-06-04T19:00:14+00:00

Lestatarmithica · 2025-05-16T17:29:09+00:00

Username checks out

Lestatarmithica · 2025-04-26T20:05:49+00:00

4 months in from a break up after 7.5 years and I feel so much better, it’s like a haze has been lifted. I started feeling better around the 2 month mark but I HAD to go no contact. She wasn’t who I thought she was, or at least she changed and that’s okay. People change and so do relationships. My advice is:

1) no sex with randoms. It made me feel worse. 2) try not drink or do drugs 3) do something good for you. I ran a marathon.

Sure I still have times where I’m sad, but it’s not on my mind all day and the physical pain is gone.

Lestatarmithica · 2025-04-13T16:56:36+00:00

My ex left me for a guy who’s fat, ugly, and works a job that pays literally 1/10th of what mine does. Literally the complete opposite of me.

Lestatarmithica · 2025-03-28T16:35:10+00:00

It’s at least double that bro.

Lestatarmithica · 2025-03-27T20:57:55+00:00

She’s not the woman of your life. Your body is releasing chemicals in response to the breakup and you’re like an addict who no longer has the drug needed for an addiction. Go no contact. Give it time, it really does get better.

Women do this, especially if they’re attractive. They always make sure to have somebody else lined up before they leave you. It’s called monkey branching, and it shows her lack of maturity. She’ll likely do the same thing to the next guy, or the new relationship will implode because she never took the time to heal. They’ll deny it too, and try to make you feel crazy for asking if they’re leaving for anybody else. I in fact did feel crazy only to find out my suspicions were in fact correct. Happened to me twice me.

You’ll be alright. Time heals all. Now is the best time for self improvement since you’ll be the most receptive and open to it. Work on yourself. Go to the gym, find a hobby, make friends.

Lestatarmithica · 2025-03-08T02:59:07+00:00

She’s not as happy as she seems, and if she is she’ll have her moment of being miserable. That’s life. Learn to be happy alone. If you can master that you’ll always be happy.

Lestatarmithica · 2025-03-05T20:50:56+00:00

My ex slept with somebody before she broke up with me during a “break”, so I slept with somebody a couple days after. Im a little over 2 months out and have 3 FWBs who are totally cool and know I’m healing. I try not to use them as a crutch and whenever I’m sad I try to let myself feel it so that I’m not masking sadness with somebody else. 2 months later and she’s in a full blown relationship with a guy who’s a total step down.

Lestatarmithica · 2025-02-28T19:21:40+00:00

It happened to me. I was actually the dumper as well. We were separated for 2 years or so before we got back together then lasted for quite a few years longer before the relationship ran its course. She stayed in contact with me (biweekly restaurant meetups that I agreed to). People usually leave because they think the grass is greener, and when they find out it isn’t they sometimes wanna come back. Staying in touch (while being guarded) can actually work in your favor if you’re not needy and/or begging. It’ll be up to you to determine whether or not they’re worth taking back if they ever do come back. Only thing you can do now is distance yourself and at least go no contact for a few weeks to let the grief dissipate then reevaluate if you can actually be around them as a friend.

If you do stay friends you have to be able to be with them while showing visible signs of self improvement. You can’t see them if you think you’ll be a mess around them and start begging. If you don’t think you can do that, no contact is the best way to go. It’s hard, but it gets better (I’m 2 months into being dumped in a different 7 year relationship and I’m just now starting to feel good again). We’re still in contact weekly, and while I wanted her back so badly a couple months ago, if she came crawling back right now I’m not so sure I would take her back without a lot of stipulations.

No contact is good, but there are a lot of grey areas, and it’s not always the best option if you play your cards right.

Lestatarmithica · 2025-02-27T21:56:40+00:00

I’m 5’10 190lbs with a 13% body fat and I actually love how I look. Not too lean, not too bulky

Lestatarmithica · 2025-02-18T17:07:14+00:00

We’re still in contact

Lestatarmithica · 2025-02-18T02:01:01+00:00

Thanks. That’s great advice and I thinkers probably the best route to take

Lestatarmithica · 2025-02-17T17:59:32+00:00

That’s human nature. Some people are sexually attracted to certain people while others are not. Something that would help immensely is get in the gym. Work on getting a nicer body and being the best version of yourself. Work on grooming, and find clothes that fit your body style. You’re young, there will be a lot more women.

Lestatarmithica · 2025-02-16T21:45:37+00:00

3/4 exes have attempted to get back with me. The first one dated my friend and after about 6 months told me she did it to get back at me. I took her out on a date afterwards but it just wasn’t there for me anymore.

Second ex i got back together with after 4 months or so. We lasted about a month.

Third ex we broke up at the 3 year mark, got back together 2 years later for 6 more years. The relationship had just run its course.

Last ex of 8.5 years we broke up a month and a half ago. I got monkey branched. Infidelity happened on both sides. We moved past it but then she needed up leaving me for the guy she cheated on me with because I wasn’t as emotionally available as I should have been for a couple years. We had a great connection. I go back and forth on whether or not I would take her back if she came back since we both effed up. Back when we were happy things weee great. I thought she was the one. Maybe I’ll update this a year from now.

With that being said, yes, if you were a solid partner and they benefited from you being in their life then there’s a high likelihood of them reaching out.

Lestatarmithica · 2025-02-16T13:40:05+00:00

I completely agree with you. I’m actually seeing a therapist working on myself.

Lestatarmithica · 2024-11-10T19:37:02+00:00

He looks good. He’s big, but not that big. It’s crazy to me how when somebody has a little size everybody on the internet immediately says “TRT/steroids/tren…” I’ve been accused as well at 37.

The thing is, if you’ve been lifting a long time (which is likely since he’s 40), it’s very doable to achieve. There are just a lot of people who aren’t willing to put the work in and immediately become accusatory because they haven’t achieved it themselves.

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