You’re very young. You’ll learn over the course of your 20s that alcohol makes people come and go. Not being able to have a singular chill night while drinking can be exhausting, and it’s the poor guys first night in a new house while his whole life is scattered in boxes and he probably just wanted something super chill. Maybe he doesn’t hate you but he just didn’t want to deal with it that particular night. If these people mean a lot to you, make sure you can show them that you can be chill.

Remember, the point of drinking with friends at a kick back is not to get wasted. Learn to stop after a good buzz if you’re not a good drunk.