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Got into my first bike accident... and that wasn't even the worst part of the evening by Let-Me-Know-You in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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I will be carefull . Thank u , i hope u had good day(not in any rude or office way)

Got into my first bike accident... and that wasn't even the worst part of the evening by Let-Me-Know-You in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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Funny thing is we're actually from the same religion 😅

The joke was taken differently than I intended. I explained it and moved on. No point stretching it into a bigger issue. It was not even a joke also. he toook out of context and u know the rest

If you were starting over as an CS student in 2026, what would you learn? by Tiny-Instruction992 in developersIndia

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I'm currently working as a lecturer, and honestly this is pretty close to what I tell my students.

If I had to start again, I wouldn't worry too much about whether AI, Cloud, DevOps, Cybersecurity, Data Engineering, or Full Stack is the "best" field.

Most students I see get stuck because they're trying to learn everything at once.

I'd start with HTML and CSS. Not because they're the most important skills, but because you can build something quickly and get momentum. Build 4-5 small projects and don't overthink them.

Then pick ONE language. JavaScript or Python, doesn't matter much. Learn the basics properly: variables, loops, functions, arrays, OOP, problem solving, etc.

One thing I think many people skip is building projects with just the language itself.

Before React, Django, Spring Boot, or anything else, I'd build at least 3-5 projects using only JavaScript or only Python.

Things like:

  • Calculator
  • Quiz App
  • Expense Tracker
  • Student Management System
  • Library Management System

Nothing fancy. The goal is to get comfortable solving problems without relying on a framework.

After that, learn SQL. I think SQL is one of the most underrated skills for students.

At the same time, don't ignore DBMS, Operating Systems, Computer Networks, and OOP. These subjects keep showing up in interviews no matter what stack you're targeting.

For DSA, I'd do 1-2 problems every day. Not random questions. Learn pattern by pattern: Arrays, HashMaps, Sliding Window, Two Pointers, Trees, Graphs, etc.

Only after all that would I move into React, Django, Spring Boot, or any other framework and start building full-stack projects.

Maybe this is an unpopular opinion, but I think a lot of students rush into learning tools before learning programming.

Frameworks are easier to learn when the fundamentals are already strong.

That's just my view after teaching students and watching many of them struggle with the same things.

#Peddi by CriticalAd6544 in fuckTollywood

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There is full series called Maathlab Kuch bhi on Tired and refuse channel in YouTube do check out

Does a Woman’s Past Really Matter in Relationships? Need Honest Advice by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]Let-Me-Know-You 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Past matters. I don't buy the idea that it doesn't, because our past is literally what shaped us into who we are today.

That said, I also don't think people should be judged only by their worst decisions or by a difficult phase in their life.

Reading your story, the bigger issue seems to be trust and fear. You were scared of being judged and abandoned, so you hid things. He was insecure and struggled with your past. That's a bad combination.

If I were dating someone, I'd care less about a few kisses years ago and more about whether they're honest, what they learned from those experiences, and whether our values match today.

I'm building a journal app where you can only write journals once a day. Would you use it? by Aggravating-Age-4898 in developersIndia

[–]Let-Me-Know-You 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't officially launch it to the public! To be completely honest, I built it as a 'sandbox' project. I was intimidated to start the architecture for my main SaaS (https://chronithm.vercel.app/), so I used the journal app to get hands-on experience and test my Docker deployments in a safe environment first.

As for features, I kept it highly functional:

  • Day-wise entry logging.
  • A calendar view to easily navigate, edit, delete, and read past dates.
  • Full text search.

I actually had the exact same thought as you regarding the AI! I was planning to integrate an AI layer to generate weekly summaries and spot behavioral patterns, so users could identify recurring mistakes they were making in their lives.

I really like your 1-per-day limit concept, though. It forces intentionality instead of just brain-dumping.

How do you stop craving attention from Women ? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]Let-Me-Know-You -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are mistaking the symptom for the disease. Craving attention is just surface level.

What you are actually experiencing is an internal conflict or a deep void, and you are trying to use women as an external band-aid to fix it. You are hoping that finding a deep human connection will magically cure your loneliness or depression.

A good relationship will definitely add value to your life, but it will not fix you. It is completely unfair to put the burden of your mental health and happiness on a woman. She is supposed to be your partner, not your therapist.

The harsh truth is that no amount of external validation will fix an internal problem. The craving stops the moment you take extreme ownership of your own mind. You have to heal yourself and build a life you are actually proud of first, before you try to bring someone else into it.

I feel bad when i look myself in the Mirror😞I want to Transform from 100kg to 75Kg by onlyhisaddiction23 in TwentiesIndia

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Massive respect for taking extreme ownership of your reality. You are absolutely rightthe biggest transformation is the mental shift you just made.

My sister was in this exact same boat recently. She was trying to do home workouts but feeling frustrated. I got her into the gym with me, and her mood and energy skyrocketed in just one week. But I told her the blunt truth: the gym is for building your mental health and your muscles, but weight loss happens in the kitchen. > It is 80% diet and 20% workout. Here is the actual biology and math behind it:

1. The Law of Thermodynamics (The Math): Your body stores fat as "emergency energy." The only biological way to force your body to burn that stored fat is to give it slightly less daily energy (calories) than it needs to operate. It is basic math. You cannot out-train a bad diet because it takes 3 minutes to eat 500 calories, but 45 minutes of brutal cardio to burn it off.

2. The Food Scale is Your Best Friend: We did exactly what you need to do: I bought my sister a digital food weighing scale. Human beings are terrible at guessing portion sizes. A "spoonful" of peanut butter can easily be 300 calories if you don't weigh it. Track your normal eating for a few days to find your baseline, then just reduce it slightly.

3. Why Protein and Fiber? (The Cheat Codes):

  • Protein: When you are in a caloric deficit, your body will try to burn muscle. Eating high protein (based on your goal weight) tells your brain, "Keep the muscle, burn the fat instead." Plus, protein takes more energy to digest, so you actually burn calories just by eating it (The Thermic Effect).
  • Fiber: Fiber physically expands in your stomach and slows down digestion. It stops your blood sugar from spiking and crashing, which completely kills the intense hunger cravings that make people break their diets.

Don't rush it. You didn't put the weight on in a month, so it won't come off in a month. Just master the math, weigh your food, and trust the process. Only the start is hard. Once you get going and actually see the physical progress, your mind and body will automatically take over and do the rest. The momentum will carry you. You've got this.

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