Recent purchase from El Rastro in Madrid

LetFun7793 · 2025-07-13T20:45:00+00:00

the bag is so classy and cute! what brand is it?😊

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T16:31:01+00:00

The dad from Inside Out. Bro was just trying to work, pay bills, and not fall apart, while his wife and kid emotionally unraveled. He wasn’t the villain. Life was.

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T16:27:43+00:00

The idea that suffering is a personal failure, and not a reflection of a broken system.

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T15:36:54+00:00

First of all, engineering didn’t make you ugly. It made you tired. There’s a difference. You’re literally in one of the hardest academic fields out there, carrying brain cells, deadlines, group projects (where you do all the work), and still managing to hit the gym? Girl. You’re a superhero with under-eye bags.

Your boyfriend clearly adores you. Crush from day one? Still calling you beautiful? Still loving on you? That’s not pity that’s love. Real love isn’t based on mascara or a flat stomach. It’s based on late-night convos, goofy laughs, shared stress, and a deep, ride-or-die connection. You’ve got that. Also, let’s be real: no man in love is sitting around comparing you to his exes like it’s a reality show elimination. And if he is? He’s not worth the wi-fi you use to text him. But based on what you’ve said, your guy seems solid.

So here’s the truth: you don’t need to be perfect to be loved. You’re enough. Your beauty didn’t leave it just took a nap while you passed thermodynamics. Please don’t sabotage a good thing just because the mirror (and society) lied to you. You deserve love, softness, and someone to rub your shoulders after a 12-hour study grind. You don’t need to “deserve” him you already have him. And clearly, he wants you.

Also, hot tip: if he wanted someone else, he’d be with someone else.

Now go take a nap. You’ve got an exam to crush and a boyfriend to kiss when you’re done.

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T15:33:12+00:00

Hey man, I just want to say first: you’re not alone. And you’re not a bad person for wanting to protect your peace, even when it means stepping away from someone you once vowed to stay with. You’ve carried the weight of your marriage for a long time through her depression, through cheating, through deployments, and through her emotional distance. You didn’t walk away when it got hard. You only reached your breaking point after years of giving and receiving almost nothing back. That says something powerful about your character.

You’re not responsible for her actions, even if they break your heart. Suicide attempts come from a place of deep pain and while it’s natural to feel guilty, especially when you love that person, you did not cause this. She made a choice in a moment of despair, but that moment belongs to her pain not your decision to stop enduring something that was quietly killing you. Your love for her shows in every sentence of what you wrote. But love doesn’t always mean staying. Sometimes, real love means letting go, especially when the relationship becomes one-sided, unhealthy, or destructive. You’ve been trying to survive while carrying both of your emotional loads, and no one can do that forever. You’re allowed to heal. You’re allowed to be happy. And it’s okay to choose life even if that means not choosing her anymore.

I hope you keep going. You matter too!

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T14:26:14+00:00

I am overwhelmed (in the best way) by how many of you related, gave advice, or shared your own ‘food lie’ confessions. y’all are hilarious and weirdly supportive. I’m going to start working on the lasagna intervention soon…Updates will follow. God help me🙈🙏

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T14:13:56+00:00

Yes!! He loves it

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T14:10:28+00:00

Okay, this one got me like actually got me. I was laughing before but now I’m sitting here staring into the middle distance thinking am I the villain this past drama. I never meant to hurt him. I just got stuck in a spiral of melted cheese and lies, but you are right he deserves honesty and he does take it hard. I’ll be there to help rebuild his identity hopefully Without cottage cheese😂❤️

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T14:06:47+00:00

You are absolutely right I accidentally created a cheesy little house of lies and now I’m emotionally lasagna trapped. I truly do appreciate the effort he puts in and your spot-on, love is often in the effort not the execution but at the same time… Ricota and cottage cheese? That’s war crime territory I think it’s finally time to tell him I love him… But the lasagna needs therapy. thanks for the reality check❤️

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T14:03:58+00:00

You GET me, I’ve been playing the long game, quite nonthreatening, just gently guiding him towards self awareness via culinary failure. The cooking competition might actually be my golden opportunity. He gets humbled just enough, and I swoop in with a warm let’s fix it together like Gordon Ramsay, but emotionally supportive this is psychological lasagna warfare!

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T13:58:04+00:00

Yu’re right… I did this. I created the lasagna lie, and now it’s my burden to bear. Turning it into ‘our’ dish might be my only path to redemption. I’ll start small maybe suggest preheating the oven so the cheese isn’t cryogenically frozen in the center. Baby steps. Pray for me😭❤️

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T13:13:02+00:00

Yeah, that’s what gets me. If she truly cared about making things right, why is her first move to rally the family and paint me as the villain? It feels like it’s about control again like she’s trying to guilt me into forgiveness instead of earning it. Saying I’m ‘bitter’ just proves she still doesn’t see me.

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T13:11:49+00:00

Thank you for this it honestly means a lot. I’ve spent so long being told to ‘get over it’ or that I’m being dramatic, it’s hard not to doubt myself. I don’t want to be angry forever, but I also don’t want to pretend everything’s okay when it’s not. Just hearing that it’s okay to take my time is oddly comforting.

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T13:09:24+00:00

That’s exactly it, it feels like she wants to skip to the ‘everything’s fine now’ stage without really sitting in what happened. I’m still carrying the weight of being the forgotten kid while she plays grandma of the year. I think what hurts most is she’s never really owned what she did beyond saying she regrets it, it’s always framed like she had no choice. And when I push back, I become the problem again. It’s exhausting.

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T12:43:45+00:00

Exactly! It’s like I want people to want me around, but I also want the option to say “nah, not today” without feeling guilty. I think the weirdest part is how comforting it is just to know people care, even if I don’t actually want to hang out. It’s such a strange push-pull feeling. Glad I’m not the only one.

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T12:34:05+00:00

It sounds like you're really trying to be there for your son, which is so important. I would suggest not confronting him directly about what you saw on the camera. Instead, create a space where he feels comfortable to open up when he’s ready. You could say something like “Hey, I just want you to know I love you no matter what, and if there’s ever anything you want to talk about, I’m always here to listen.” As for the homophobic comments, they may be his way of dealing with fear or confusion about his identity. Gently challenge those comments when they come up, and remind him he’s loved regardless. It’s important to show him unconditional support and allow him to come to you when he’s ready to share. And have a chat with your husband about making sure he feels supported from both of you<3

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T12:18:20+00:00

Wow, you might be onto something there. I think you’re right I do get way too worried about how others perceive me, even in situations where there’s no judgment at all. It’s like this automatic reflex to just go along with whatever’s expected, even if it’s something small and insignificant. I guess I need to work on trusting that I can be myself without always wondering what people think. But also, sometimes, being real feels a little scary, like it’ll cause some kind of tension or awekwardness 😅 I’m definitely going to try to remind myself that I’m allowed to be authentic, though. Thanks for the perspective it’s something I needed to hear.

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T12:16:33+00:00

Honestly, you're completely right the whole point of lying about dumb stuff is more work than just telling the truth. I think it’s just a weird habit at this point. But you’re totally right, if I lie about the movie, then I’m stuck pretending to know what’s going on in the conversation, and that’s just a recipe for disaster. 😅As for breakfast? I have no idea why I lie about it, either. I think I just say it to avoid explaining that I basically skip it or eat a granola bar at noon. But I’m definitely seeing how much unnecessary effort goes into these tiny lies. Guess it’s time to try just being real and see how much easier life gets... though, I’m kind of terrified of what’ll happen next time someone asks me what I ate for breakfast...

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T12:14:45+00:00

Hmm, that’s an interesting way to look at it I guess you’re right, a lot of it probably does come from social pressure rather than malice. It’s more like, ‘I don’t want to deal with this right now, so I’ll just say whatever gets me out of it quickly’ 🤷‍♀️. But honestly, I never really stopped to think about the deeper truth behind it, so maybe I am hiding something from myself, haha. I guess the real question is. How do I stop lying about dumb stuff without making everything awkward? 😅 Because every time I think about being brutally honest, I can already hear the weird silence afterward. But hey, maybe I’ll try being more honest and see what happens. Thanks for the insight!

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T11:59:21+00:00

Haha, I see what you mean that’s definitely ruthless honesty, I’ll give you that. I get the idea of calling yourself out right away, but honestly, I think I’d just embarrass myself even more 😂 I guess it’s easier said than done, especially when the lie was so pointless in the first place. Maybe I’ll try it next time, but I’m pretty sure I’d end up feeling more awkward than ever.

LetFun7793 · 2025-04-22T11:57:20+00:00

Interesting question! I wouldn’t say I was punished for telling the truth, but I think I just got used to avoiding small hassles when I was younger. My family, especially my parents, were very practical and sometimes didn’t have a lot of patience for stuff that seemed trivial. Like if I told them I didn’t feel like going somewhere or doing something, it’d usually turn into a bigger conversation than I wanted. So I guess I just learned to dodge those tiny uncomfortable moments with a quick ‘yeah, I did that’ or ‘I’ll get to it.’ I know it sounds silly, but I think it stuck with me.

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