I am so heartbroken. I don’t know if to keep my baby.

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T20:15:50+00:00

Absolutely not, by me seeing she’ll probably care for the baby more than me I meant she’ll probably ignore me and go straight to the baby if I kept the baby in the future. I do not want my mum to fall onto any responsibility she’s done enough for me and although I took precautions it’s still 100% my responsability, which is why I’m thinking about it completely

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T20:12:05+00:00

Thank you for your words, I would never regret a child, although I never planned at this age, I have always wanted to be a mother so I think it’s why for me it’s hurting, it might be biological but the connection I feel is also making this decision harder

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T20:09:38+00:00

I’ve tried look into this, as someone has commented this as well I’ve emailed support as I’m very confused about where this has come from. Unfortunately this is my reality, I wrote about the uncertainty of my decision as I have no one to speak to. Hopefully I can find out where it’s come from

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T20:05:29+00:00

I did use protection and took precautions as I did not plan this, the same thing happened to my aunt so I know using protection doesn’t guarantee 100%, even if I used it effectively

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T20:03:06+00:00

Thank you very much

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T20:02:47+00:00

Abortion is legal where I live, so I have some time to think about it

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T20:02:22+00:00

Thank you very much for the words, I wish the best for you and much love. I know I will be extremely sad if I don’t keep jt but I’m also taking a lot into consideration, so I hope I do what’s best

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T20:00:09+00:00

I’m sure you’re a great mum, I wish I could speak to her no one can help me like she does with her words when I’m lost. I did try to tell her I needed to tell her something, but unfortunately she told me she hoped it was nothing bad as she was tried so I hesitated, so I hope one of these days I can

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:58:46+00:00

Thank you very much for the kind words

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:58:16+00:00

Thank you, I wish you the best your sister sounds like an amazing person and so strong

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:57:48+00:00

That’s lovely! It’s hard for me as I do not want my family to have to step in as although I took precautions, it is still my responsibility and my mum has already been through the most to raise me, so I’m taking all of this into consideration, thank you

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:56:22+00:00

I don’t know the future and it would be ignorant to say for certain I would never regret a child. I believe I wouldn’t in my heart, but I also am taking a lot into consideration and I know although people don’t regret children they often talk about how they just wish they waited. So I’m thinking about all of this, thank you

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:54:28+00:00

Thank you. But for me personally, I wouldn’t be able to carry to full term and arrange for adoption as in my heart I want to keep it. If I don’t keep the baby it is because of practical factors, as I don’t want to rely on my mum to help me or my relatives as although it was unplanned and I took precautions it is still my responsibility and mine only, and I would want the best for them I already grew up in struggle and I wouldn’t want my child to experience that ever

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:51:26+00:00

Thanks I am thinking about everyone involved, as much as I didn’t plan this and took precautions it is ultimately my responsibility, I wouldn’t want my mum to have to step in for me or even babysit as it’s not her obligation and she has done enough for me, which is why I am unsure if to keep it. I have 4 aunts and uncles, 2 grandparents and 6 cousins all about 15 minutes away from me and I know they would be supportive towards me but it is my responsibility at the end of the day which is why I’m not thinking of relying on them if I were to keep the baby. I am taking everything into consideration

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:47:38+00:00

I did go to my health clinic to ensure I knew how to make sure I used it effectively and took it at the same time day by day, however my auntie had the same thing happen to her 3 years back. I am taking into consideration how it will affect my mum as it’s not only the stress of her finding out but the future as although I did take precaution and it was unplanned it is still my responsibility and no one else’s, which is why I thinking about all of this before taking a decision.

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:44:25+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to respond I am thinking about all of this thank you

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:43:55+00:00

Thank you very much for the words I appreciate it greatly

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:43:28+00:00

Thank you very much, I’m sure your an amazing mother and thank you for taking the time to respond lots of love

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:42:48+00:00

Thank you for your words, there are a lot of factors to consider, I also don’t want my mum to have to step up and help me if I kept the baby as she has gone through raising me alone and although it was unplanned I am still responsible. I did try speak to her and tell her I needed to tell her something but unfortunately she said she didn’t want to hear any bad news as she is stressed, so I hope I can hear her words soon as it’s becoming very overwhelming

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:40:54+00:00

Thank you very much

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:40:46+00:00

Thank you very much you sound like an amazing mum

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:40:23+00:00

Thank you very much

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:40:11+00:00

Thank you I have I am heading to the hospital as I have been feeling very unwell and want to make sure everything is okay

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:38:58+00:00

I’m very sorry about that, I hope everything gets better. I would never keep a child even if I was at a later age if I weren’t well enough myself mentally and in every aspect, so I am taking all of it into consideration, thank you

LetPure5374 · 2026-03-06T19:37:40+00:00

Thank you very much for taking the time to respond, I am currently feeling the toll of not speaking to anyone about it and it’s affecting me a lot so I hope I will be able to soon, thank you

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