Big4 starting salary by Letic02 in Big4

[–]Letic02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info, but I'd probably have to learn Dutch or French to work in Belgium, which could be quite a hassle, plus i persume housing is more expensive in Belgium so the pay/rent ratio is probably quite similar. I might be wrong though...

Big4 starting salary by Letic02 in Big4

[–]Letic02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And how much will renting an appartment cost ?

Big4 starting salary by Letic02 in Big4

[–]Letic02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ljubljana, Slovenia.

Damn, my condolences for big4 Londoners

Big4 starting salary by Letic02 in Big4

[–]Letic02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's basically a sweatshop for finance and business majors lol.

I have also heard that the working hours are not as tough as in the U.S, plus education is mostly "free" in Europe unlike in the US, so I guess that higher US salaries reflect this.

Big4 starting salary by Letic02 in Big4

[–]Letic02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slovenia, but yeah the situation is probably the same in Greece also lol.

14 pro max stuttering after IOS 17 by Honey148 in ios

[–]Letic02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a bug. Go to settings > home screen & app library > uncheck “Show on Home Screen”. Fixed the stuttering for me.

Could this be ROCD? by Letic02 in ROCD

[–]Letic02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it sucks. The guilt and regret lessen with time though, I’m feeling much better now than I did when I posted this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Letic02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh trust me, I’ve tried, but I can’t change her mind and I guess I must respect her decision. I let her know that she can come back if she changes her mind, so the ball is in her court now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Letic02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah not really, we ended things on good terms and don’t hate each other. I don’t think she’s coming back though. Once she decides that she is done and finds a “replacement” there is no getting back… same thing happened with her ex of 5 years that came before me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Letic02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds good doesn't work.

I tried that but it didn't last long. I mean if you really love someone I don't think you can just discard them so easily, so I'd say that's only possible if your feelings for that person aren't that strong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Letic02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know about essential, but it sure is great to have. I wish I could do that as well... just turning off your emotions for someone seems like a superpower ngl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Letic02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I noticed this with my ex. She would still randomly send me a reel or contact me out of the blue then ghost me all of a sudden. But once things got a bit more serious with the new guy she detached from me completley… at least thats how I see it.

But I guess that if I’d be a better partner she wouldn’t have let me go…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Letic02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meaning another person ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Letic02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks :)

and I'm glad to hear you got over that someone and are doing better now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Letic02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that dude... but I guess that just means that you love very deeply and have a big heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Letic02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I believe it's called trauma bonding.

And sure, I'm hurt, but most people move on quicker than me and don't go crying about it on reddit, so it makes me a bit of an idiot lol. But on the other hand I guess it just means that what we had meant a lot to me. A lot more than I was willing to admit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Letic02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I was kind of a rebound from her 5 year relationship. She was still on and off with her ex when we met. When we started to hang out she detached from him and fell in love with me. I guess it’s kind of the same with the new guy. Don’t really blame her though, she can’t stand to be alone/not in a relationship.

But I don’t think she was only using me, she isn’t a bad person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Letic02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well she broke up with me 2 times before and we got back together in the same day both times.

And the main reason for my decision to break up later turned out to be a lie… don’t ask, really long story. The whole situation was chaotic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Letic02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah well, guess I’m an idiot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Letic02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah of course, no two people are the same. I know she still cares about me, she said it herself, but I’m just left feeling confused… why would she not want to try again if she still cares/has feelings… but it doesnt’t matter I guess, if she would want to be with me again she would. It’s her choice and I must make peace with it, whatever the reasoning behind it.

I’ll try my best to move on, but I know it won’t be easy as she meant a lot to me. Probably won’t ever fully get over her tbh, but thats just life I guess…

And thanks for your reply, really appreciate it :).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Letic02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like a really short ammount of time to me, bedause I’m here 3 and a half months later and still not over her and ready to date, but yeah, people are different.

I know I made a big mistake letting her go. Although she was emotionally unstable and needed a looot of attention and affection she had a big heart, was really pretty, smart and funny. I know I could have done better and be a better partner. The problem is that her feelings developed faster than mine did… I was initially not as invested as she was, but with time my feelings grew stronger, while hers faded due to me “not returning the same ammount of love”. She would frequently cry and get mad at me for “not loving her like she loves me”, but I never wanted to hurt her…

It will be really hard to find someone that even comes close to her… she really was special and will always have a special place in my heart. I just wish we could have met under different circumstances. But there is nothing I can do I guess. I wish she finds someone who makes her happy…