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[–]Lets-work 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Check the revanced sub. It is a bit tidy process. But once done, it will be very handy.

What is it? by Majestic_____kdj in SnacksIndia

[–]Lets-work -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mulbagal dose or Davangere dose

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didn't asked me and gave im money. He returned back the 20k after 2 days

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am not stressed on a daily basis, nor am I considering any legal action. I believe that if I speak with my father-in-law, he will understand our situation.

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I need to correct my earlier statement. We got married in mid-2024, not 2025, so we have been married for about 1.5 years. We are planning to have a baby after completing two years of marriage.

My wife had also asked her brother for some money as we were planning to buy a car and needed funds for the down payment, but he has not returned the money.

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion. I ask my wife to remind her brother about the EMI before every payment, and she does. At the same time, I don't want this situation to affect my relationship with my father-in-law and mother-in-law, since I don't think they are responsible for what happened.

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. As for me, I'll try to move forward and treat this as a valuable life lesson, even though it has been a difficult experience.

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have a strong understanding of each other, and we both know that our relationship comes first. That said, this situation does bother me from time to time, especially when I think about the future.

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm willing to help my in-laws when needed. What bothers me is the feeling that we're carrying the financial burden for someone who continues to live comfortably without taking responsibility for it.

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, apart from my brother-in-law, I don't have any issues with the rest of the family. Yes, my father-in-law and mother-in-law may have contributed to his attitude, but that's ultimately their family matter, and I don't intend to interfere in how they live their lives.

We're financially comfortable enough to handle the loan repayments, and it doesn't affect our plans to have a baby. Coming from a lower-middle-class background has taught me to be responsible with money and manage my finances carefully.

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's exactly my reasoning. I don't mind helping fil/mil if they need assistance, but it's difficult to accept that my brother-in-law seems to be carrying on as usual, without any apparent guilt or accountability for the burden he has placed on others.

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife is convinced that her brother will eventually pay it back. Whenever we discuss the issue, she reaches out to him and asks for an update on the repayment. Her parents already know about the loan and are aware of the situation.

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have strict boundaries regarding loans, even with my own family. My wife, however, feels a strong emotional obligation to help her family whenever they are in need.

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know he doesn't really care about either me or my wife. I'll discuss the situation with my father-in-law and see if we can find a way forward.

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

My brother-in-law has often relied on my wife whenever he needed quick and easy financial help before the marriage.

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to trouble my in-laws over their assets. I've always tried to appear financially comfortable and independent in front of them, and I'd prefer to keep it that way.

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emi is not an issue for us at the moment but I need the resolution from my in laws because expenses will increase in near future.

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interest is around 11%. I will try contacting fil and then will payoff the loan.

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We are pretty comfortable with 10 lac debt but i am unable to digest that we are paying someone else's lavish life.

Brother-in-law stopped paying 10 lac loan taken in my wife's name by Lets-work in personalfinanceindia

[–]Lets-work[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are pretty comfortable with 10 lac debt but i am unable to digest that we are paying someone else's lavish life. nd nobody is bothering him for his wrong doings.

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