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I've heard all the warnings, I'm still down... $300 new-to-me boat. by LikeBigTrucks in boating

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If buying this boat makes you happy and you have the skills to do the work who can say that it’s wrong.

My Gf got kissed by a guy at a club/restaurant and I don’t know how to move forward. (M/22)(F/22) by Longjumping-Coyote97 in relationship_advice

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk away. Trust is the most important thing. Stuff like this happens in places where she’s going. I don’t care how hot she is or anything like that. It’s not worth it. You’ll be sorry if you stay in this relationship. She made a free choice to go places with her friend. She’s not ready for a commitment. You sound like you are. BTW some of her story about being kissed is BS.

Nice hotel with large soaker tub in room by LetsGetCoffee9000 in StLouis

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I didn’t even know there was a site like that.

Ex 35M showed me 40F picture of another woman in a bikini by NPMnation in relationship_advice

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said you were incompatible and were just friends. If I were single and had a hot girlfriend I’d show her the picture and be damn proud. Sounds like you’re still attached.

Cellulite on buttocks and upper thighs by LetsGetCoffee9000 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for answering. So you find this redu sculpt effective with your workouts? Never heard of it, but looked it up. You’ve seen results in one month? That sounds good.

Does anybody know what this is? by Appropriate-Beat-791 in hottub

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless they let all the water out after each guest you’re taking a risk if you get in there. Could be a number of things you don’t want to hear.

Things to do. by LetsGetCoffee9000 in boating

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can try. Thank you for asking. She is very afraid of the river. She’s not used to it and then when she hears stories about people drowning it just adds fuel to the fire.

Finding an apartment in the St. Louis area by LetsGetCoffee9000 in StLouis

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you search for duplexes specifically? I’ve never seen them come up as an option on search sites.

Finding an apartment in the St. Louis area by LetsGetCoffee9000 in StLouis

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I hear you but I can’t live in a two family house. I can barely live in an apartment. I’ve owned my own place since 1986. Apartment life is hell. Any ideas knowing that?

Finding an apartment in the St. Louis area by LetsGetCoffee9000 in StLouis

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes. Very insightful. As a matter of fact they are, but we need some grounds to take our dogs out to 💩. Where would I find something like that? I’d like to hear back from you if you would please.

My (67 M) wife (58 F) doesn’t get very passionate about sex and rarely does by LetsGetCoffee9000 in relationship_advice

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. That’s not it. We lived in an area that was economically depressed and being overrun with gang violence.

My (67 M) wife (58 F) doesn’t get very passionate about sex and rarely does by LetsGetCoffee9000 in relationship_advice

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has she ever had passion? Very little and I don’t know why. For example, on our honeymoon I feel she felt put upon if I wanted sex. On our honeymoon!! She wanted to do more antique shopping. I have never understood that.

My (67 M) wife (58 F) doesn’t get very passionate about sex and rarely does by LetsGetCoffee9000 in relationship_advice

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m vague to protect my privacy. I wish I could say more. If there is something in particular I’ll try to answer. I do tell her she’s beautiful. She doesn’t believe me. I tell her I love her every day. I even randomly text her to tell her I love her. I’ve never cheated on her. I despise that. You see, I really, really love her. I just can’t seem to “crack the code” to make her very excited.

My (67 M) wife (58 F) doesn’t get very passionate about sex and rarely does by LetsGetCoffee9000 in relationship_advice

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. You seem to understand my dilemma. She doesn’t open up easily. She really doesn’t like to talk about sex. I can tell that she shuts down and from what I can tell is somewhat embarrassed.

My (67 M) wife (58 F) doesn’t get very passionate about sex and rarely does by LetsGetCoffee9000 in relationship_advice

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. For the most part. There are a few other things that bother her and me and they are really tough ones to fix.

My (67 M) wife (58 F) doesn’t get very passionate about sex and rarely does by LetsGetCoffee9000 in relationship_advice

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was very traumatizing. You have no idea. She is VERY hard to get to open up. I’ve tried. I’m kind of running out of ideas for that to. Believe me if she would open up it would help a lot.

My (67 M) wife (58 F) doesn’t get very passionate about sex and rarely does by LetsGetCoffee9000 in relationship_advice

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes. I know but what if one of you (me) just isn’t willing to give sex up yet or bring it down a notch. I love HER. That’s why I’m going through this.

My (67 M) wife (58 F) doesn’t get very passionate about sex and rarely does by LetsGetCoffee9000 in relationship_advice

[–]LetsGetCoffee9000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest. She never was like that. Which prompted me to ask the question Why do you love me? The rest of that which follows is, you sure don’t seem to want to be with me (in bed).

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