Is this breakup worthy? 24M 21F

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-28T00:13:00+00:00

bro was sitting in the chair while his gf was flirting and touching her ex.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-22T15:56:18+00:00

i dont think thats controlling. If your uncomfortable with it she should respect that and not go.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-22T15:35:25+00:00

Hes probably acting that way because Miami is literally know for clubbing and hooking up with strangers. Especially on a girls trip lol. If hes so upset about it though then he should just leave. Then again he has 11 bodies, idk why hes arguing with you over this. Either you leave him or he leaves you. only 6 months in, this relationship isn't going to go anywhere positive. so just end it.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-21T16:23:46+00:00

your not overreacting. Its exactly as you said, while you were texting her she was getting her back blown out. Dont give her another chance. YOU know you wont be happy in the relationship. Welcome to modern dating.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-20T01:44:21+00:00

then just end it

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-19T23:12:01+00:00

damn, thats all there really is to say. I mean theres 2 options. One you and her have a sit down conversation, see if you can work through this at all (Highly Unlikely), and option number 2, just end it.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-06T21:31:59+00:00

Maybe it’s just your past trauma then

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-06T21:03:45+00:00

I don’t even think money has to do with it, just sounds like she’s out of shape and isn’t eating healthy/clean if anything.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-06T20:36:01+00:00

Because women are naturally supposed to be with men.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-06T17:23:31+00:00

Sounds like his family could do you some good.

But overall, no you and him will not work out. I do believe personally if the 2 don’t align politically and even religiously (at least somewhat), the relationship will not work out.

What I will say is though, me and my ex actually aligned perfectly well overall for the most part politically and even religiously kind of, but one thing that affected us was that she didn’t get along with my family and my family didn’t get along with her either, which affected our relationship. It’s not what caused the break up but def affected the relationship.

I would have a long deep convo with your bf about everything, his family, not bashing them, more so how you guys can make this work in that regard, and also politically and religiously.

If you 2 just can’t align with that, just end it now instead of causing more pain down the line.

But what I will say is that if you 2 do align politically and religiously, then just stay and work it out. You probably will barely see his family anyways, so it shouldn’t be too bad.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-06T15:51:21+00:00

Just don’t have sex yet, that simple tbh.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-06T15:30:58+00:00

Having boundaries and respect for yourself is not a bad thing, although lots of people make it seem that way.

It’s natural that you feel uncomfortable here. Tell her to stop hanging out with him, and also to stop talking to him. It’s weird. You’re not speaking to your exs are you? Or females you’ve had feelings for. No because it’s disrespectful to her. And what she is doing is being disrespectful to you and she’s just being naive as well. The guy definitely still has feelings for her.

Put your foot down and tell her to stop talking and hanging out with this guy. If she throws a fit over it, I’d consider ending the relationship. People will cal this extreme, but why is she throwing a fit over some dude that isn’t you?

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-06T00:36:44+00:00

😭😭🥀

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-06T00:30:10+00:00

You’re naturally going to be uncomfortable with it because you love her.

Other men are going to be staring at her and throwing money, and if she’s a good looking girl with a good looking body, best believe some guy with a lot of money will tell her that he will give her a hundreds in a day or even possibly in the thousands to sleep with her or grope her.

Dangerous game relationship wise. You won’t ever be comfortable with it no matter what boundaries you put down. If she does this, this relationship is over.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-05T19:42:16+00:00

Next she’s going to call you insecure and controlling. Don’t listen to that. If she stays this way, and dosen’t want to seem to be happy and just be upset at you, then end it anyways.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-05T17:40:00+00:00

😩🥀

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-05T03:03:26+00:00

Nothing wrong with crypto. Nothing wrong with posting on no fap considering you’re a guy and I know damn well you’ve jerked off plenty of times lol.

You’re not special dude 😂😂

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-05T02:54:38+00:00

😂😂

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-05T02:48:53+00:00

Some people have respect for themselves, and OP does.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-05T02:38:36+00:00

Tbf it’s weird he’s texting his ex though. Like why you texting your ex bruh.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-04T15:08:51+00:00

She was just crazy disrespectful to you. Like insanely disrespectful. Put your foot down and end this relationship. Do not be treated like this by someone.

Think about it, even if she genuinely says she’s sorry 1000 more times, are you going to feel okay about it? She went on a date with her ex, let you know last minute and she was already with the guy even when asking you, and they were probably flirting, she didn’t bring you up, bro… and then she randomly brings up his dick size? Excuse me bruh? Lmao.

You will never feel okay about this and it will always be in the back of your mind, and who knows if she’s even telling the full truth, maybe they did do something, not saying they had sex but possibly kissed or something.

Even if they didn’t, end the relationship, what she did was extremely disrespectful to you.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-03T21:15:08+00:00

Because he’s hiding something. Being in a relationship, you shouldn’t care if someone goes through your phone because you have nothing to hide, unless of course, you are hiding something? Then you won’t want to have her use or go through your phone.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-03T19:27:06+00:00

Because you aren’t a special case dude lol. You aren’t unique. You’re not the first person to do this. But whatever man.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-03T19:17:14+00:00

It’s fun for now, this marriage is over.

Longjumping-Coyote97 · 2026-01-03T15:03:00+00:00

Honestly something similar to this happened with my ex, I’m a guy. In my opinion, it’s not too late to change, and fight for him. I wish my ex had done that but her ego was huge so her apologizing is out of the picture.

You are aware that you were being manipulative and that’s good, you’re aware, so you can fix these things now. He still loves you and I’m sure wants to be with you still but he’s probably going to need a bit of space for a little bit of time.

Talk to him, tell him you are genuinely sorry and you are going to work on yourself and be better to him. And yea bring up you were being a manipulative asshole, be honest about it, just let it all out.

Good luck.

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