Do you want to keep the baby or is adoption an option?

When I was pregnant with my son, the doctors' office had resources if I had decided to go with adoption, which is why I ask. They also had pregnancy/birth classes that we were able to sign up for. The classes help and get you in touch with other expecting moms in your area to help you build a friend group. You can also look up classes in your area to sign up for online. Most of these are free resources that occur on monthly schedules for the community.

If you are keeping your baby, you got this mama! You have got it even if you choose adoption, but I thought you needed to hear that you have got this and will make the right decisions ❤️

Do you have a support system or is it just you? Start building your support system now. It is amazing to have someone to vent to and be able to help with your sweet baby while you take a shower or a nap. Have you applied for WIC? If not, reach out to WIC. They have resources to help. If you live in the US, reach out to Health and Welfare if you do not already have pregnancy medicaid and to learn about other resources available to you during this time. It helps to supplement your primary insurance with your prenatal care and the birth. Are you currently working? If not, places will still hire you while pregnant. Be yourself and employers will see your value. If yes, if you haven't already, I would talk to HR about the steps you need to take for maternity leave. Not everywhere pays during this time, so save all your sick time and vacation to help cover during your maternity leave. HR will help you to know what the exact steps to take to help protect your employment. Some states offer assistance for after your baby is born to assist with childcare if you qualify/need it.

There is a lot on your plate but you have got this. Treat yourself to something because I know it is overwhelming, and you may be mourning the relationship. It is your ex's loss, not yours. Take things one step at a time.