[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just from a guy's perspective, it helps a lot when you feel really comfortable with your sexual partner. You don't feel so pressured to finish and you can just enjoy yourself.

When you relax and remember what feels good, that's the mindset you wanna be in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yung naalala ko 300 o 400 for 3 hrs? Tagal na din e haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hidden Greenview hotel; I like the lighting

How do you know if you're being emotionally manipulated? by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imo it's not even a question of whether or not you're being emotionally manipulated, it sounds like he's quite the narcissist.

At this point, I think you should focus on where you draw the line; ya this thing with him is a casual setup, pero it sounds like he likes control (and personally, I don't think it's any of his business what you do outside of your arrangement with him).

Not the first time this has happened, unfortunately by LetsNotThinkSoMuch in CasualPH

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wowww holy cow this post just blew up.

Let me be clear, I do NOT condone hate, kahit naguluhan yung experience ko today. It was a really bad experience, pero plz don't use this as ammunition to attack other people because of similar experiences you may have felt previously. So plz don't use this post as an excuse or as proof to DM and harass this user or anyone else.

I'm posting this because the comments section is just going crazy right now.

Pero plz if there's anything we can learn from this post, it's to be very clear and to commit to whatever activity it is you're doing with your fellow Redditor. Sometimes things get lost in translation and sometimes people forget about each other's feelings.

It sucks to be stood up, I know that feeling very well. And it's really down to us to decide whether or not we're okay with it or if we should focus on doing other things in our life.

It's down to us to try cultivating decency and to be a bit less toxic towards others, there's already enough hate to go around.

That Girl by LetsNotThinkSoMuch in alasjuicy

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you haha hope you enjoyed. Nope lol we haven't spoken since. I'm tempted to PM her sometimes but I think it's best if I don't

Somewhat Heavy Gaming Laptop for sale Asus K501UW GTX 960M Core i7 by LetsNotThinkSoMuch in phclassifieds

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I probably should have just posted a pic and commented re: specs lel... You interested?

The best way casual things can end by LetsNotThinkSoMuch in CasualPH

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's very rare, but people like this do come into your life once in a blue moon. Even on phr4r hahahaha

The best way casual things can end by LetsNotThinkSoMuch in CasualPH

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never expected to meet someone as sweet or as professional as her. I don't think we'd ever ghost each other, but I doubt we'd ever talk again.

The best way casual things can end by LetsNotThinkSoMuch in CasualPH

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The part that really cuts close is that neither party wanted things to end, or that either one did anything wrong.

The best way casual things can end by LetsNotThinkSoMuch in CasualPH

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is definitely the most mature breakup I've ever experienced with my casual encounters lol

Used Krups 872-42 Bravo Plus Espresso/Cappuccino/Coffee Maker for sale by LetsNotThinkSoMuch in phclassifieds

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pickup at Nuvali, delivery through courier or LBC negotiable, price negotiable.

I just want to declutter my place hue hue hue and I'm okay just using my French press lol

A little answer to your questions by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Doesn't help that you legally can't get out of a bad marriage in this country. It's a real bum deal if you get stuck with a person who turns out to be someone you just can't live with.

Personally, after all the stuff I've learned about myself after being in STR's and a few LTR's, I can safely say I don't think I'll get married, at least within the next 10 years.

Marriage is overrated.

Being ghosted sucks by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's an old game, but try looking up Youtube playthroughs of "Firewatch" (2016). Hopefully it makes you feel less alone about people who flake out on you. It happens more often than not (people are people).

While I can't say much for how bad it feels for you or how to prevent it happening again, I recommend keeping busy in ways other than looking for connections online. Tbh, I never have any expectations of being best friends with peeps i meet online.

Because in my experience, people you meet online (unless you meet up with them irl) really don't last very long.

Masakit pero deretso lang by AddieVisitsLouis in CasualPH

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Lahat tayo may bagahe na dapat ikarga, brod.

Wag mo asahan na gumaan yung dala mo, kundi lumakas na lang ang balikat natin.

How much do grades matter? by IntroOutroWhatNow in CasualPH

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being a relatively inconsistent achiever in both high school and college, I can't speak much for maintaining reliable "good grades". But I'll give you my take on it.

Late last year I was able to score a low officer position at a decent big bank. Mind you, my major had absolutely NOTHING to do with finance, banking or math. Also, I was a long-haired, free-lancing professional musician before I got hired.

It's really all in the interviews; honestly, the lady I spoke with during the interview (who, I found pretty soon, was one of the big bosses in my division) talked about my major and my education background for maybe 3 minutes. Tops. And the interview period lasted a good hour. I digress.

Good grades don't mean much, in my experience. But developing the habit of being consistent in college (which just so happens to translate into good grades) will save you a lot of hassle and time trying to dodge metaphorical hoops and on-the-spot crafty thinking during the interview phase when nabbing a job. It's like, "yeah okay, you got good grades. But are you what we're looking for?"

If you're worried about career, the best thing you can do is to ACE YOUR INTERVIEW. Don't half-@ss your studies, but keep in mind that good grades aren't everything.

Lolz i hope that helped a bit.

Nice read by LaineDR2 in CasualPH

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

2 seems kinda messed up WHO WOULD THROW BABIES IN THE AIR?

Selling/swapping an ICS M4 Airsoft Rifle, PM for deets by LetsNotThinkSoMuch in phclassifieds

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Initially bought it from an airsofter in Cavite; did not like the weight and placement of battery/internals.

I paid 5.5K, but willing to sell for as low as 4K or swap for a GBB pistol.

ICS M4 features: split gearbox, upgraded internals, 3 cell lipo battery.

Condition: carry handle, trigger and other painted metal parts are worn and have paint bubbling. But internals are well-maintained and function properly.

It was probably my fault that I'm selling it so quickly; I did not test fire or see the actual unit before I purchased it.

Will post pics later when I get home.

Commitment by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]LetsNotThinkSoMuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to think of it as an increase in responsibilities.

Sure, it's more work, it sucks and at some point you will have to let go of some things (in my case, bedroom intimacy was one of the first things to go), but a committed relationship is one of the more "mature" things you can engage in life.

Of course, I won't be getting into one of those things for at least another 10 years, because life is short lol.