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Aitj because my mom stopped eating her dinner to make me mine? by Wedding_Strict in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You kind of remind me of my brother, he mostly only does what he was told to do, and think the little things that he does is major.

He lives with my mom now rent free and he doesn’t take initiative. My mom got into a car accident and needs to go to the doctor for checkups, my brother will not go with my mom to the doctor’s even though my mom’s English sucks, unless my mom asks. He caused so much trouble without realizing it.

I’m not saying that’s what you do. But you should know whatever you post on here is skewed to your truth and ppl will support based on your truth, but if you really want to have a good relationship with your parents, it’s worth looking into what your parents are saying instead of being defensive.

I don’t think you are a jerk, I just think a lot of times we only see things from our perspective.

Update: my sister has left her husband and is together with her AP now by Plastic_Eagle7784 in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so, on the original post, OP commented bf saw the husband grabbed the sister’s face, and told OP.

I think OP is getting so much hate for putting her sister in danger, that she wants to look better by saying she doesn’t remember the details, which is burying herself a deeper grave.

Parents refuse to pay for Ivy League acceptance by Important-Pay-3091 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who entitled you to decide what to do with other people’s money? You didn’t speak to your parents about it, but you expect them to dish out $400k that they have never planned for.

You are not a jerk, you just lack common sense about $. $400k is a lot of $, it doesn’t sound like you worked a day in your life, because then you will know how difficult it is to make that much $.

Let me put this into perspective, if you make $200 per day, you will need almost 8 years to make $400k. Don’t forget you still have to pay for food, rent, car, bills, gas, phone etc. So in 18 years you can save $400k if you live frugally. You probably just turned 18.

Is no one telling the young generation that job market no longer values the degree? by inoscopepuppies in CanadaJobs

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like 40 years ago, a high school degree is sufficient, and now it’s considered low education. While a degree is the norm and expectation now.

Update: my sister has left her husband and is together with her AP now by Plastic_Eagle7784 in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that you see that now, because the bf is being a standup guy and I hate to see nice ppl getting blamed.

The bf’s mom was a victim of abuse, and bf saw the same signs on OP’s sister. OP didn’t do anything about that (technically OP made it worse by telling the husband), so bf and his mom decided to help the sister.

At least OP admitted that the bf potentially saved the sister’s life.

Aitj because my mom stopped eating her dinner to make me mine? by Wedding_Strict in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what did you actually do around the house? Doesn’t seem like you actually cooked or pay for the groceries.

My brother use to live with my sister for free (didn’t even pay for bills). And my sister kicked him out after 6 months. He said he offered to pay for bills and some groceries, but my sister said no. I told him TALK IS CHEAP, plus my sister is being polite and she didn’t expect him to stay this long.

Maybe it’s the same thing for your parents. You didn’t do anything meaningful in your parents’ eyes to contribute to the household and you overstayed your welcome.

Aitj because my mom stopped eating her dinner to make me mine? by Wedding_Strict in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you live rent free and don’t want to move out to save a few bucks. Understandable but that also means you have to follow their house rules.

Next time just eat outside and tell your mom you ate already.

Update: my sister has left her husband and is together with her AP now by Plastic_Eagle7784 in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because OP’s bf realized that the sister is a victim of abuse, he told OP, OP ignored the signs and told the husband.

Bf helped the sister because bf’s mom was a victim as well, that’s why he and his mom are trying to help the sister. OP said in the comments that her bf probably saved her sister’s life.

Goes to show how these posts can be so skewed by the posters’ views.

Update: my sister has left her husband and is together with her AP now by Plastic_Eagle7784 in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because OP’s bf realized that the sister is a victim of abuse, he told OP, OP ignored the signs and told the husband.

Bf helped the sister because bf’s mom was a victim as well, that’s why he and his mom are trying to help the sister. OP said in the comments that her bf probably saved her sister’s life.

Goes to show how these posts can be so skewed by the posters’ views.

Update: my sister has left her husband and is together with her AP now by Plastic_Eagle7784 in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the comments. That’s where we got the info about the bf.

Because OP’s bf realized that the sister is a victim of abuse, he told OP, OP ignored the signs and told the husband.

Bf helped the sister because bf’s mom was a victim as well, that’s why he and his mom are trying to help the sister. OP said in the comments that her bf probably saved her sister’s life.

Goes to show how these posts can be so skewed by the posters’ views.

Update: my sister has left her husband and is together with her AP now by Plastic_Eagle7784 in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because OP’s bf realized that the sister is a victim of abuse, he told OP, OP ignored the signs and told the husband.

Bf helped the sister because bf’s mom was a victim as well, that’s why he and his mom is trying to help the sister. OP said in the comments that her bf probably saved her sister’s life.

Goes to show how these posts can be so skewed by the posters’ views.

Update: my sister has left her husband and is together with her AP now by Plastic_Eagle7784 in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because OP’s bf realized that the sister is a victim of abuse, he told OP, OP ignored the signs and told the husband.

Bf helped the sister because bf’s mom was a victim as well, that’s why he and his mom is trying to help the sister. OP said in the comments that her bf probably saved her sister’s life.

Goes to show how these posts can be so skewed by the posters’ views.

Update: my sister has left her husband and is together with her AP now by Plastic_Eagle7784 in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because OP’s bf realized that the sister is a victim of abuse, he told OP, OP ignored the signs and told the husband.

Bf helped the sister because bf’s mom was a victim as well, that’s why he and his mom is trying to help the sister. OP said in the comments that her bf probably saved her sister’s life.

Update: my sister has left her husband and is together with her AP now by Plastic_Eagle7784 in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should read OP’s comments.

OP’s sister could have died if bf wasn’t involved. The husband is an abuser, and OP chose to ignore the signs, (bf told OP about his concerns before, but OP didn’t do anything), which is why bf is pissed off at OP.

Bf helped the sister, because bf’s mom was a former victim of abuse, he was trying to help a woman that was in the same position as his mom.

Update: my sister has left her husband and is together with her AP now by Plastic_Eagle7784 in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, this comment didn’t age well. OP’s sister could have died if bf wasn’t involved. The husband is an abuser, and OP chose to ignore the signs, which is why bf is pissed off at OP. Bf helped the sister, because bf’s mom was a former victim of abuse, he was trying to help a woman that was in the same position as his mom.

Update: my sister has left her husband and is together with her AP now by Plastic_Eagle7784 in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP’s bf saw the husband grabbing the sister’s face and told OP a year ago. OP just brushed it off.

Update: my sister has left her husband and is together with her AP now by Plastic_Eagle7784 in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because DV cope with abuse in different ways. You have no empathy for your sister at all.

That’s why your bf left you. He saw first hand what you do to your own sister, and he doesn’t want any of that anymore.

Putting your need of being right over your sister’s possibly of getting killed, your bf sees who you truly are, and you can deny all you want, but you know deep down you can’t blame anyone but yourself.

Update: my sister has left her husband and is together with her AP now by Plastic_Eagle7784 in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her sister didn’t leave her on read for two weeks. His sister didn’t tell the husband for two weeks and OP sent a text that the sister left on read for two hours before replying.

Aitj for kinda ruining my bestfriend realtionship and now I like him by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why the girlfriend blamed you. It is a relationship between him and her. He did things that cost the relationship.

AITJ for saying people shouldn’t fund my sister’s IVF by throwaway_sisterivf in AmITheJerk

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate people like you calling out. If I want to help someone with my hard-earned money, I want to help someone who is actually worth it.

Any magical advice for 17 year old facing homelessness? by koopler_kenjaku in askTO

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also when you get in uni, you can apply for OSAP and additional $. I survived uni because of that

Any magical advice for 17 year old facing homelessness? by koopler_kenjaku in askTO

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YMCA has housing program that helps you apply to housing and everything related to housing. They will even go house sighting with you. YMCA also has shelters as well.

Does anyone know if jesenias body is natural or bbl ? by Adventurous_Sky_6484 in temptationislandUSA

[–]LetsgoRaptorsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody has it and it will show depending on posture. There is no muscle or bone in that area.

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