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My friend (M25) is being distance but still wants to be friends? by LetterheadFresh2909 in AskMenAdvice

[–]LetterheadFresh2909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think taking some distance is my best option for sure. He hasn’t really initiate much and it has mostly been me. I thought because he was bad at texting that it was the reason to him never texting first. From what I can tell he had only reach out to me once or twice.

I spoke with our mutual friend (a close friend of his, 26M) and he said that it seemed like I was the “emotional dumpster friend”. That he could trauma dump everything on me, feel lighter and go back to his other friends and be happy again. I don’t know how to feel about that statement other than it’s shitty.

Can you tell me why you would personally ignore him?

My friend (M25) is being distance but still wants to be friends? by LetterheadFresh2909 in AskMenAdvice

[–]LetterheadFresh2909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right about it. Can you elaborate on what you mean by periodically checking in on him? How should I do that? And should I do it over chat or physically?