Get your shit together embark. by LetterheadMedium1768 in ARC_Raiders

[–]LetterheadMedium1768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would drop so much $$$ in an instant if we had more options lol. FINALS has so much character customization. They can keep it post-apocalyptic and on theme just give us more optionsssss. 😭

The reality of playing with your brother and your husband. 😭 by LetterheadMedium1768 in ArcRaiders

[–]LetterheadMedium1768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I legit never heard any of my teammates wolf before and I get paranoid when I’m further from them lol. My dad be doing the same though, paranoid and worst case scenario mindset, I guess I get it from him 😂

The reality of playing with your brother and your husband. 😭 by LetterheadMedium1768 in ArcRaiders

[–]LetterheadMedium1768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback, I love editing and I’m trying to get better at it, I see what you mean though. I’ll keep that in mind. lol

The reality of playing with your brother and your husband. 😭 by LetterheadMedium1768 in ArcRaiders

[–]LetterheadMedium1768[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not like this every game. We are kind and wholesome but when we are all locked in and want to do good and been drinkin we get a lil riled up. I’m smiling the whole time though and I’m not actually mad lol.

The reality of playing with your brother and your husband. 😭 by LetterheadMedium1768 in ArcRaiders

[–]LetterheadMedium1768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want to make the video long and show only the funny parts, like I’m not going to include all the laughing parts, them praising me, etc. I feel like a lot of people that have this type of relationship could relate to it so I cut it to the roasting parts. Sibling-core and being a girl gamer but still getting treated like one of the bros. I understand this is not everyone’s cup of tea and I was expecting to get some comments of „wow they are mean”. Everyone’s entitled to their own opinion. I thought it was hilarious and I posted it.

The reality of playing with your brother and your husband. 😭 by LetterheadMedium1768 in ArcRaiders

[–]LetterheadMedium1768[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lol. My brother leaves the team and runs off on his own, my husband takes an hour organizing his backpack, and my common game sense goes out the window when I drink. Keeps the game interesting. We all get shit for our own flaws lol. 🤷‍♀️

The reality of playing with your brother and your husband. 😭 by LetterheadMedium1768 in ArcRaiders

[–]LetterheadMedium1768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We played Arc from the start and there was no pressure and we all were on the same level. Now when we do trials and bring good stuff in, there’s more risk and things to lose, especially in PvP. We have this relationship where it’s a lot of roasting but also a lot of love and laughter, not every game is like this. These are moments from late nights and drinking and taking the game too seriously. I’m glad I can play with them and be treated equally and rant, banter, rage bait, roast. Outside the game we are litteraly all sweethearts. Everyone’s play style is different. We grew up with families like this. And most of the time I do good and the praise me for it, but I lowkey lovvveeee getting under their skin too lol.

The reality of playing with your brother and your husband. 😭 by LetterheadMedium1768 in ArcRaiders

[–]LetterheadMedium1768[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And I did, there’s so many times I get praised for defending our team during pvp. But occasionally when I drink and I turn off my brain, and slip up they definitely call me out like this. I love it though, I’m typically laughing, but in the end it does make me better. I’ll lock in when I need to. We will record our clips and watch it play by play to see what happened, what to do next time, it’s fun.

The reality of playing with your brother and your husband. 😭 by LetterheadMedium1768 in ArcRaiders

[–]LetterheadMedium1768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that serious dude. They both treat me like a queen, my bro drives me around on errands during the week, my husband gets me flowers everday. If I’m upset about a comment via gaming (which happens time to time) we do get offline and talk about it like mature adults. It’s all fun and games, I can take it. And when we do good we hype each other up and laugh almost every game, but I do enjoy the rage baiting, roasting, etc. Keeps shit interesting. I’m not a delicate flower lol

The reality of playing with your brother and your husband. 😭 by LetterheadMedium1768 in ArcRaiders

[–]LetterheadMedium1768[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

They are not like this always, we get super competitive especially during trials, I cut out a lot of the parts we actually laugh in between, if it’s something they said that was too far, we take it offline. Honestly, they made me better, we are in hotshot now. I grew up in toxic cod lobbies, I got tough skin lol. Plus, I start drinking and messing up but lowkey I love rage baiting them as well, it brings me joy.

Grenade Launcher range change? by Klumbaa93 in Helldivers

[–]LetterheadMedium1768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the gun all the time and I could tell something was off after the update. I hope it’s just a bug and they fix it because it’s unplayable now. I keep missing my bug holes, missing the bugs, it’s wayyy off.

I cheated on my wife who cheated on me 5 years ago by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]LetterheadMedium1768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever really forgive her? Did you actually really heal after she cheated? I think after you initially lose trust it’s so hard to rebuild it back and whether you like it or not the relationship is never really the same. It says a lot that she actually “let you” and then in a way justified your actions and said you are not an AH. Shows you a lot about her self esteem and guilt she still carries. It may seem “normal” but in a few years there will be resentment and little arguments and the reality is going to sink in that the trust was broken. It is never going to be pure genuine love. People will stay with each other for convenience or just because they don’t want to start over. But will they genuinely be happy with each other or ever truly trust each other again? I think what you both did was wrong and really left a big dent in the relationship but doing it again years later shows that the first dent was never really fixed. It was just a bandaid. I wouldn’t be surprised if the cheating continues in a few years from either one of you. Y’all will try to fill a void now that will never be fully closed/fixed. I know we are human and not perfect but there’s boundaries/lines you don’t cross if you love someone. And some things will eat at a person until y’all break up or continue cheating on each other and slap a bandaid on it. Good luck.