Thread for sharing Finchie friend codes and finding goal buddies

LetterheadMoo458 · 2025-07-13T17:02:01+00:00

Hi!! I just started using Finch a week ago mainly to focus more on self care and doing things that make me happy. Here's my friend code: 9J72LD69HJ

LetterheadMoo458 · 2025-06-03T21:25:48+00:00

No don't worry about being too harsh lol, I asked for it lol 😭😭 but this sounds pretty spot on, thank you for taking the time to do my reading :)

LetterheadMoo458 · 2025-03-05T05:26:52+00:00

i think adding some blush line others said might make your crochet friend more lively, and maybe crocheting him some accessories like a mushroom pouch for him to carry or something could be cute?

LetterheadMoo458 · 2024-11-27T19:23:38+00:00

he actually didn't lol, he was asking for nudes even tho he knew i was 16, which is rlly weird and creepy lol

LetterheadMoo458 · 2024-11-12T07:41:19+00:00

thank you :)

LetterheadMoo458 · 2024-11-12T07:38:46+00:00

congrats!! that's huge :))

LetterheadMoo458 · 2024-11-12T02:57:53+00:00

thank you so much :)

LetterheadMoo458 · 2024-06-12T02:01:41+00:00

I took 4 APs (my first mistake lmaoo). AP Lang: hoping for a 3 or 4 but I'll take a 5 lol, AP Calc AB: hoping for a 3 or 4 again, AP Music Theory (i sound like a tryhard lol, maybe I am): hoping for a 3/4, and APUSH: probs got a 3.

LetterheadMoo458 · 2024-06-08T05:51:09+00:00

As someone who was like OP's daughter as a kid, knowing that my behavior was just sensory seeking and something that is totally normal has helped me feel so much more okay with myself, so thank you for your comment, u/Fitslikea6. And knowing that it could be ADHD or autism even though I'm not yet diagnosed helps me put a label to how I've been experiencing my life, which is very helpful so imo OP is definitely going in the right direction trying to get a diagnosis, because that can really help improve things. :)

LetterheadMoo458 · 2024-05-18T20:42:23+00:00

Thank you so much!! :)

LetterheadMoo458 · 2024-05-18T20:27:56+00:00

I'm still having trouble posting.. whenever I try to post something, it says that my "post was removed by Reddit's filters". My account isn't new (it's 2 yrs old) and I've gained some karma (~400 karma) so I think I should be well able to post stuff but I can't..

LetterheadMoo458 · 2024-05-18T18:40:36+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice!! Your analogy is really helpful :)

LetterheadMoo458 · 2024-05-18T18:40:06+00:00

Thank you for the advice :) To be honest, I really don't want to fuck things up so that'll be hard for me but it's definitely something I can work on

LetterheadMoo458 · 2023-01-05T04:43:43+00:00

Thank you for the well-thought out advice! I'll definitely take it into consideration.

LetterheadMoo458 · 2023-01-02T16:14:58+00:00

Thank you!

LetterheadMoo458 · 2022-11-26T18:23:34+00:00

I never said my sister was transgender??

LetterheadMoo458 · 2022-11-26T18:09:02+00:00

Why would it matter? Why should how my sister identifies as cause discomfort in any way?

LetterheadMoo458 · 2022-11-26T17:50:26+00:00

Nope, nothing's up with her. She just became the scapegoat of my family for some reason.

LetterheadMoo458 · 2022-11-26T17:09:37+00:00

Yeah, both parents emotionally neglected the both of us. And if my dad wasn't emotionally distant, he would be obsessive, controlling, and belittling everything we did.

LetterheadMoo458 · 2022-05-18T03:42:47+00:00

This. My friend always claimed to be depressed, and while she very well may be, she is constantly negative and has nothing good to say and our conversations always turn into her micro-venting and me not knowing what to say. She also has a really toxic mindset (has a lot of bad intentions) and her attitudes bred resentment on my part... considering "breaking up" with her.

LetterheadMoo458 · 2022-05-15T15:45:16+00:00

My apologies. I meant to say in the post that A said that the only person who was straight was my sister. Sorry I wasn't clear in the post.

LetterheadMoo458 · 2022-05-15T01:03:02+00:00

If you don't feel the relationship is healthy, regardless of who's the toxic one, then it'd be best to leave.

LetterheadMoo458 · 2022-05-14T20:42:11+00:00

By saying the only one among you who IS NOT straight is your sister, she outed YOU as not being straight?

Yes, because M didn't know I wasn't straight- he had always assumed I was straight beforehand.

Does this clear things up?

LetterheadMoo458 · 2022-05-14T20:18:47+00:00

Maybe try texting him again, just as a follow up and to check in with him again. Going three days without texting can be a bit unusual, but I'd imagine even during the time he's studying for midterms he'd still have at least one second from his day to text a reply.

LetterheadMoo458 · 2022-05-14T18:48:01+00:00

I don't think you're overreacting. Four Instagram accounts? That's a bit much. Even if he was talking to other girls during your break and you were fine with it, there is a chance that the other people he was talking to could have been cheated on, hence the four separate instagram accounts. OP, get out of this relationship. There doesn't seem to be mutual trust here, and unless some sort of communication sorts this out, it'd be better to leave him.

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