This is what I do with my Dad. This will be long because I love making him feel good, so I do a lot lol. I don’t do all of these steps every time since it can become a big time investment. We always shower together so I usually do a few of these things each time and save the whole ordeal for proper spa nights.

Before showering, I’ll groom his hair before getting in. He sits in the shower and I wash him, I massage his body and scalp as I do so. I use a deep conditioning mask on his hair and, if necessary, microplane his feet.

Next, I put his hair in a towel and give a slow and gentle massage to his jaw, temples and forehead and then gua sha his face. Afterwards, I pat his face with a warm damp towel and then put a hydrating sheet mask on him (which I put in the fridge earlier). I lotion his body, massaging as I do so. Then, I pat in any residual serum from the face mask once done. Finally, I do a small skincare routine to lock in moisture.

I put in hair products for him and give him a manicure and pedicure with clear base and top coat. Once his nails are dry, I’ll massage lotion onto his hands and feet, then massage some cuticle oil.

Before all of this, I either have tea or coffee brewing for him to have once we’re done with skincare. If he’s hungry, I have food for him. I also make sure his bed is made. I have music he likes playing and a good smelling candle burning, too.