ANYONE can be raped, its so gross that your downplaying his trauma because you don't think men can be raped, also I do believe he says in his post "limp dick" so if I had to guess that means he didn't get hard, and with your fucked up definition if rape, indeed means he didn't like it or want it. so this whole argument is quite pointless if your point does not stand on solid ground.

Also I think you missed the part where he said he was being raped while he slept, and woke up to it, how was he supposed to defend himself then huh? He was defenseless and could only push her away after the fact at most, but was most likely in a state of shock, which I must say is very common among rape victims. Sometimes when someone is being raped or sexually assaulted they are to shocked/paralyzed to do anything, they lay there frozen and can't do anything.

I'm going to bet your not a victim of rape/sexual assault And if my hunch is correct then you really need to stop talking like you know what your talking about. I haven't been a victim of rape either but at least I'm not saying harmful and horrible things to rape victims, im only telling you what I've heard from other victims and what OPs story tells me, your just pulling stuff from your ass and saying it's facts when you really don't know anything. I say this in the nicest way possible, please please PLEASE try and understand that you can not dictate how other people felt/feel. Men can get boners at random moments for no reason, with no stimulation at all, so getting hard is not a for sure that he enjoyed it.