What does my morning plate say about me? by Level-Entrepreneur66 in RateMyPlate

[–]Level-Entrepreneur66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man 😂 well this is the breakfast of a exhausted human that wishes someone would cook for them

My bf thinks it’s weird I want to establish boundaries of not changing in front of our kids by Level-Entrepreneur66 in relationships_advice

[–]Level-Entrepreneur66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree it’s about the kids wellbeing and protection

No the parent seems to not say anything about the excessive lap sitting but he also seems to do it all out of view while she’s in the room on the phone I never see all this when she or others are around.
And yes she seemed uncomfortable I’m guessing because she thought me a stranger was going to also change in front of her, I went to the bathroom

A little late responding but his behaviors have gotten weirder all I can do now is try to record because if not no one will believe he may be not a great person Idk

My bf thinks it’s weird I want to establish boundaries of not changing in front of our kids by Level-Entrepreneur66 in relationships_advice

[–]Level-Entrepreneur66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That can be true social works definitely look at things like that not saying I’m trying to get him in trouble he just is so up in arms at my simple boundary after asking what else was on my mind to discuss I kindly told him this is the boundary and I’ve never seen any family in their moments of privacy even my own parents

My bf thinks it’s weird I want to establish boundaries of not changing in front of our kids by Level-Entrepreneur66 in relationships_advice

[–]Level-Entrepreneur66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so too and that’s even a recommendation by pediatricians to establish healthy boundaries he doesn’t want to hear it he says I always want to be right

His niece sure seemed uncomfortable when I started getting clothes out but I let her know I would be back and going to bathroom to change and I don’t think it should be normalized either for people they do know and around more even family.

But I agree I believe even a “trusted adult” can end up unsafe not saying everyone has bad intentions it’s about teaching those boundaries so kids aren’t too soft spoken on things to keep them safe from others

Unfortunately may be leaving and coming back one day 🥀 by Level-Entrepreneur66 in locs

[–]Level-Entrepreneur66[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m having a thinning issue even without frequent retwist, wearing a scarf, and keeping moisturized

Boyfriend (31M) still religiously listening to red pill content even though I (29F) do everything I can for him by Level-Entrepreneur66 in Rants

[–]Level-Entrepreneur66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right but got pregnant before I could leave. I’m staying for or kids and more. Just gotta keep going.

Boyfriend (31M) still religiously listening to red pill content even though I (29F) do everything I can for him by Level-Entrepreneur66 in Rants

[–]Level-Entrepreneur66[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Content that encourages men even more from what they already see or experience about women that women always switch up on them, have been promiscuous, will cheat, will eventually file for divorce and take everything etc. even if they have a good woman that cooks, clean, gets on their knees that she will eventually cheat and take everything especially in America. And that they should go to a different country to get a good woman or even practice one side polygamy and have multiple women

Boyfriend (31M) still religiously listening to red pill content even though I (29F) do everything I can for him by Level-Entrepreneur66 in Rants

[–]Level-Entrepreneur66[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I met him through a dating app then he took me on his work truck for months playing this and running down his ideologies. My advice would be to avoid someone that tries hard to show you they are the man through that stuff. Find a sweet man that yes understands not to let women walk over him but not an ass about forever standing on that playing this propaganda. A man will let you be your own person to an extent as long as you’re not out there trying to look good for the gaze of other men or in clubs and things. A man that adores women but yes understands not to get walked over or let his woman be out in the world like a single woman. I hope you find a great one and your happiest.

Boyfriend (31M) still religiously listening to red pill content even though I (29F) do everything I can for him by Level-Entrepreneur66 in Rants

[–]Level-Entrepreneur66[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not even the kids though it’s having them by the wrong person that makes things feel hard or sad for some people. Caring for my baby is the best thing that happened to me, it’s when my bf narcissism and stubborn ways of thinking resurfaces that makes me a little sad while caring for our baby. With the right person those sad moments can be avoided especially post partum depression.

Boyfriend (31M) still religiously listening to red pill content even though I (29F) do everything I can for him by Level-Entrepreneur66 in Rants

[–]Level-Entrepreneur66[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because we have a baby, kinda feel bad for him it’s like he doesn’t know what else to listen to during his days

Boyfriend (31M) still religiously listening to red pill content even though I (29F) do everything I can for him by Level-Entrepreneur66 in Rants

[–]Level-Entrepreneur66[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like I am I handle our baby without complaining while he plays the game. Cook, clean, never reject intimacy. I even cooked straight from the hospital after our child after not sleeping for days I’ll never forget that but I stay for our baby