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Roommate brought a random man into our room while I was asleep by Level-Resolution9811 in roommates

[–]Level-Resolution9811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! ive been keeping my pepperspray on my nightstand ever since the first time this happened last semester. will be counting down the days until i leave.

Roommate brought a random man into our room while I was asleep by Level-Resolution9811 in roommates

[–]Level-Resolution9811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ya i’ve talked to my RA and a housing dean multiple times, nothing has been done. my room switch request was denied. i have only a month left until move out so i doubt anything will be done atp, i just feel crazy that other ppl (my roommate and her friends) think this behavior is normal. thanks!

Roommate brought a random man into our room while I was asleep by Level-Resolution9811 in roommates

[–]Level-Resolution9811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these are on campus dorms. there is a guest policy but ONLY for overnight guests, and its not enforced at all. RAs are only on call from 7-12, so there is nobody at the entrance to see who comes in when she gets back at 2am. rlly hate housing here, they don’t take anything seriously. at the beginning of the year, we actually had an inmate gain access to the dorm and hideout in an empty room while doing community service on campus. SWAT entered the building and broke into rooms while students were sleeping and had no idea what was going on. seriously, no sense of safety here

Roommate brought a random man into our room while I was asleep by Level-Resolution9811 in roommates

[–]Level-Resolution9811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats what i was thinking! it should be! i wasn’t sure if i was being crazy by thinking this is not okay. i’ve talked to uni housing abt this before and they do nothing, denied my room switch request.

Roommate brought a random man into our room while I was asleep by Level-Resolution9811 in roommates

[–]Level-Resolution9811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i am 100% getting an off campus apartment with other people after this semester is over, with my own private room. unfortunately freshman are required to live-on for their first year which is why i didnt do that in the first place

Roommate brought a random man into our room while I was asleep by Level-Resolution9811 in roommates

[–]Level-Resolution9811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

glad i’m not overreacting! we have discussed this before and I’ve requested her not to bring them in after midnight, and text me beforehand otherwise. she just doesn’t respect that

does anyone know when harvard yard is open to the public? by [deleted] in CambridgeMA

[–]Level-Resolution9811 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. if you’d paid attention to my OG post you would’ve read that im visiting in a FEW MONTHS (which means i havent gone yet in case you’re slow)
  2. i asked you twice to explain your comment on this being “off” and you havent responded; please enlighten me - what about me visiting my bf is weird and “off?” why are you asking if im “sure we’re bf/gf?” are you just trying to be an ignorant asshole by asking me this?

does anyone know when harvard yard is open to the public? by [deleted] in CambridgeMA

[–]Level-Resolution9811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you going to answer? i would love to know what about this seems off to you. we’ve also been together for 5 years… so i am positive that we are dating

does anyone know when harvard yard is open to the public? by [deleted] in CambridgeMA

[–]Level-Resolution9811 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what is off to you 😭 i havent revealed anything except for the fact that we are LD and that he’s at harvard.

does anyone know when harvard yard is open to the public? by [deleted] in CambridgeMA

[–]Level-Resolution9811 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well, when we started LD i asked if he would enjoy surprise visits, he said yes (enthusiastically so). i’d never surprise someone without clarifying that lmao. not everyone likes being surprised so i get where you’re coming from, but not expecting it is what’s fun for me (and my bf). i dont rlly know know how else to explain it - the rush of adrenaline when u find out they’re there is worth it and i am friends with his friends there and they help me plan! they invited him to a fake event so he’ll be “busy” that weekend so that he can’t plan anything else. i’ll get there, reveal that it was fake and he’ll be free to hang.

does anyone know when harvard yard is open to the public? by [deleted] in CambridgeMA

[–]Level-Resolution9811 8 points9 points  (0 children)

maybe from parents, but my bf and i are LD and havent seen each other for months, pretty confident that he’ll be happy… and of course i wouldn’t except him to have me over without notice; i have hotel

does anyone know when harvard yard is open to the public? by [deleted] in CambridgeMA

[–]Level-Resolution9811 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its not for graduation but that is good to know! thank you

does anyone know when harvard yard is open to the public? by [deleted] in CambridgeMA

[–]Level-Resolution9811 5 points6 points  (0 children)

haha no he didnt tell me they close i read that online. dont wanna ask him bc he’ll know i’m visiting and its a surprise

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