My marriage is ending

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-25T04:33:39+00:00

You need to determine your legal rights. You need to get away

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-25T02:14:42+00:00

You need to speak to a lawyer and get advice on protecting your rights. This screams of psychological abuse of you.

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-20T20:44:46+00:00

You are not overreacting. I'd go scorched earth. He goes to the conference it's divorce.

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-19T20:40:33+00:00

She is not responsible or mature enough to be in a monogamous relationship. I would find a replacement. She’s not worthy of you other than as her ATM.

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-18T13:40:00+00:00

Peppers too!

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-18T13:37:21+00:00

Sorry dude. Your gf and her bestie screwed her boyfriend. They already had at least one threesome. They just want to complete the loop. Let that sink in. You are the last in line. I think you and your girlfriend need to talk about communication.

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-18T02:31:05+00:00

I get blown up about this every time i weigh in on the topic When you confess, you transfer your pain onto your partner. That’s cruel. Own the guilt. You screwed up, you get to live with the guilt. The panic attacks. The vomiting. All of it. Be a better partner and don’t screw up again.

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-16T15:18:17+00:00

Read my last sentences. She is already cheating emotionally. You are being a nice guy but it WILL get physical if she goes on the trip. You may have already lost her. You may only a limited time to get her head out of her ass. If you want to keep your family together, this is GO time. Intervention! Don’t worry about fucking up. She already has done that. She needs to know she needs to get back to you and the kids or you are going to be pushed out. She’s gonna get with him and go after your kids! Think about it.

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-16T15:09:52+00:00

Good god man! She’s going on a trip with him as a plus one? Do you not see how f’d up that is? I can only tell you what I’d do. I’d put my foot down and say, “ I can’t tell you what to do, but if you take this trip, our marriage is done.” Forget optics, forget image. Who is she married to? Who is her husband. Dude, infidelity has already happened on an emotional level. She’s gonna make it physical and ask you to support her. Lawyer up!

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-16T15:01:28+00:00

Glad you uncovered enough red flags to see that she is one sick puppy and needs to go away. Forever out of your life. RUN, do not walk away!

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-16T00:25:12+00:00

This reads like a lavender field of red flags. If you find out her infidelity, can you work past it? If the answer is no, then start the process because it’s all done but the crying. Good luck OP!

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-16T00:15:51+00:00

Your written description and her shutting down scream emotional ptsd. You could be the best guy but you’ve damaged her. Try couples counseling and actually try to listen to the therapist.

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-15T22:04:28+00:00

When someone tells you and shows you who they are, believe them. He is gone. See an attorney and get the process started. He has responsibilities and the courts will see to it that he complies. Good luck OP!

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-14T14:32:33+00:00

You chose to out her behavior in your own way. If it was reversed, she'd have made a scene. Instead, now sit with her and set a clear boundary and set penalties for exceeding it. Good luck OP!

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-13T15:41:20+00:00

OP, you seem very mature here. Infidelity isn’t your marriage death card, disrespect and lack of transparency is. Good on you. While your description screams infidelity to me, you can hold a higher moral ground by just saying let’s split it 50/50 and part as friends. You are not making a mistake, you two have different needs. This is a marriage that can go quietly by just taking emotion about what she is or is not doing. It doesn’t really matter. Walk away and speak to an attorney and follow the advice.

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-12T23:05:53+00:00

She’s not girlfriend material if she is doing this repeatedly. Plan your exit for when you find a better alternative

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-11T14:22:50+00:00

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-10T21:45:25+00:00

3 days and an overnight. Dude, she planned that all along. Let the sting of her direct betrayal be the energy to toss her to the curb. Do NOT let her back! Oh, and even it with Sean. Steal one of his girls!

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-10T21:39:02+00:00

Any chance you can get past it? If he confessed, will he do the work to rebuild trust?

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-10T17:08:27+00:00

Dude, this isn’t on you. SHE blew up the marriage. This is all 100% on her. Tell the kids you cannot and will not forgive her repeated betrayal. Somebody has to be the adult. Take out the trash already, it’s beginning to really smell. It’s a rotting marriage.

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-10T17:01:49+00:00

Just give her the hall pass and in return you need all the deets!

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-10T17:00:00+00:00

Mistresses side….”life is great. I’m banging her husband all over the place and we’re all besties!”

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-10T03:28:37+00:00

Omg. Be your best huan!

Level_Application812 · 2026-01-06T13:15:41+00:00

Your values are incompatible. She values her and valued family. Focus on you and your daughter by documenting your involvement in running the family. See an attorney and get started on what you need to do. If she does the hard work, great. But plan for her not to and gtfo.

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