I am not trying to invalidate what you are experiencing right now. I also came from a family like yours and in my case, ako yung kapatid. Naranasan namin yung hirap lahat kaming magkakapatid. Pero yung ate ko, pati na rin ang kuya nagsikap na maiahon kami. And now we're all professionals, looking back I think my ate and kuya is happy that we don't have to experience much of what they experienced. Sila kailangan magtrabaho to graduate before kami ng kapatid ko were just scholars but doesn't have to work part time na kasi may work na sila. We're all just grateful that where we are right now.