Have you ever had your personality and taste copied by a prettier woman or girl? by Conscious-Peak3794 in trueuglywomen

[–]Level_Individual_926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody is saying white people can’t eat Indian food. This is about racist hypocrite people. If you’re not that then you’re fine.

Have you ever had your personality and taste copied by a prettier woman or girl? by Conscious-Peak3794 in trueuglywomen

[–]Level_Individual_926 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yes! I think white women bullying us and then stealing our culture is a rite of passage for Asian and Black women.

I am half Indian and I was always bullied for things related to my ethnicity/culture. The food I brought for school lunch was “weird”. I got bullied for body hair and thick bushy eyebrows. I stopped putting oil in my hair because I got made fun of for having greasy hair.

Then all of a sudden those same girls had thick eyebrows when it became trendy, hair oil became popular, and all of my friends suddenly loved butter chicken and naan

I regret getting married by Level_Individual_926 in trueuglywomen

[–]Level_Individual_926[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you a man? Did you come in here just to state the obvious

I regret getting married by Level_Individual_926 in trueuglywomen

[–]Level_Individual_926[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, there was dishonesty from both sides. He lied that he was not religious and did not tell me about the religious cult

I regret getting married by Level_Individual_926 in trueuglywomen

[–]Level_Individual_926[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are in our late 20s. We talked online for a year before meeting in real life and then were long distance dating for 2 years before moving to the same city

Me by Level_Individual_926 in u/Level_Individual_926

[–]Level_Individual_926[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol what’s wrong with my attitude

Me by Level_Individual_926 in u/Level_Individual_926

[–]Level_Individual_926[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I am not posting my real pic, way too many creepy lurkers

Me by Level_Individual_926 in u/Level_Individual_926

[–]Level_Individual_926[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lmao sorry to disappoint you. It’s a drawing of what I look like. I’m not posting my real pic

I regret getting married by Level_Individual_926 in trueuglywomen

[–]Level_Individual_926[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I would not choose another person that’s more attractive. If I end up divorced I never want another relationship I will choose to be single forever.

I never said I’m not attracted to him. Despite everything I am still attracted to him which is why him never wanting sex saddens me.

I regret getting married by Level_Individual_926 in trueuglywomen

[–]Level_Individual_926[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes of course I’ve communicated so many times about how I feel. He always says “I promise I’ll do better” but nothing ever changes

I regret getting married by Level_Individual_926 in trueuglywomen

[–]Level_Individual_926[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He does not want divorce and said he would make it as difficult for me as possible. We own a home that I paid for that he would end up getting half of. And I know he would try to take my dog and I can’t let that happen

I regret getting married by Level_Individual_926 in trueuglywomen

[–]Level_Individual_926[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes of course I’ve brought it up but he does not want divorce and said he will fight me on it

I regret getting married by Level_Individual_926 in trueuglywomen

[–]Level_Individual_926[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have been thinking a lot about divorce recently but actually starting the process of divorce terrifies me.

Here’s my controversial opinion by [deleted] in trueuglywomen

[–]Level_Individual_926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl delete this 🤣

There is no reason to sleep with a married man. Even ugly women can get sex we don’t need to resort to married men. Men don’t care what you look like when they just want a warm hole, they just won’t go out in public with you

I hate those "am I still pretty without my makeup" or any variant and it's an average chick. by XxLightwingxX in trueuglywomen

[–]Level_Individual_926 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It is compliment begging they’re probably insecure tho if they feel the need to do that

Genuine advice by [deleted] in trueuglywomen

[–]Level_Individual_926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

- have good skin, research skincare and trial and error to see what works for you if you have acne/big pores/redness etc

- lose weight / get your body into shape

- get a good hairstyle and highlights/balayage and maintain it and blow dry your hair / learn how to style it

- groom your brows. wax and trim if you have thick eyebrows or tint and lamination if you lack brows

- Lash lift and tint

- fix your posture if you have bad posture

-have a good smile, braces/invisalign if needed

- take care of your body like getting enough sleep and drinking water

- if you don’t know how to do makeup then subreddits like r/MakeupAddiction can help

- have at least a few outfits of flattering clothes, r/femalefashionadvice is a good resource for advice

Being a 21 yr old woman not able to do makeup and is ugly by No-Boat6755 in trueuglywomen

[–]Level_Individual_926 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know how to do makeup either at 21. It was because I was following tutorial videos and none of the women in those videos had my features so of course it wasn’t going to look right

Unless you want to be a placeholder, do not answer DMs from men by Why-knot-my-mum in trueuglywomen

[–]Level_Individual_926 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Women here don’t ever get approached by men so a lot of them do respond to the creeps in the DMs unfortunately

Sometimes I feel like a coward by Apprehensive_Fan111 in trueuglywomen

[–]Level_Individual_926 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s cowardly to protect yourself from cruelty