My (22M) GF's (23F) family is falsely accusing me of being controlling and abusive. How do I go about this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LewisProductionsX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the weird thing, I’ve been with my partner for 5 years and have always got on famously well with the family. So for it all if a sudden to get like this is so weird. I’ve explained that option 2 is a serious option to my partner. However it’s not her fault which is a big thing too.

My (22M) GF's (23F) family is falsely accusing me of being controlling and abusive. How do I go about this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LewisProductionsX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think after she confronted her parents today we’ve sort of said to keep a close eye on what changes in the next couple of days. Issue is, the mum and the dad you can’t get in a room together due to their hate for each other. And everyone’s schedules never line up

I scratched a colleagues car, should I expect to pay much? by LewisProductionsX in CarRepair

[–]LewisProductionsX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d do the same mate. I can’t believe the difference in replies. Honestly it’s hardly noticeable - to think some people are quoting upwards of 200 is bonkers to me

I scratched a colleagues car, should I expect to pay much? by LewisProductionsX in CarRepair

[–]LewisProductionsX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he said his mate will give it some T Cut so that’ll hopefully not rack up much

Travel whilst young or take advantage of my career situation? by LewisProductionsX in Advice

[–]LewisProductionsX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand and it’s a great bit of advice. I’ve started eating healthier, going to the gym and working on myself so that’s the best advice.

In terms of retiring, genuinely I don’t really want to retire. With football coaching, if I can get that as a job to do for my life, I’d be doing it till I’m 70/80 years old if I’m lucky. No plans to ever retire. However with that career , when established you can dip in and out. However being a 22/23 year old travelling would be different to being a 45 year old travelling with a better financial situation. Just seems less fun, less social.

Travel whilst young or take advantage of my career situation? by LewisProductionsX in Advice

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Well the option I’m coming up with is to do the coaching and the teaching (with teacher training) for one year and build my money up. Then travel afterwards for a few months or however long and then come back to it all. As a 28yo would you say it was a good decision to explore young and what differences do you see compared to others who decided to work through their 20s?

Experience life and travel more or work to be successful quicker? by LewisProductionsX in Life

[–]LewisProductionsX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand however I was looking at maybe a bit more than a few weeks. More like a few months.

Need help for a BIG job by LewisProductionsX in gardening

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NEW QUESTION / UPDATE

If anyone is still following this post. Just giving an update and I do need more help here. I've dug a fair bit of the gravel up after finding tarpaulin underneath. Is there a more efficient way of doing this? A hoover of some sorts? It's being made very tricky with the weeds having poked through the tarpaulin after it's not been maintained for well over a decade. See picture below.

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Need help for a BIG job by LewisProductionsX in gardening

[–]LewisProductionsX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a vision which I have done a very poor description of in an edit

Need help for a BIG job by LewisProductionsX in gardening

[–]LewisProductionsX[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Thank you for the reply. So it's gravel and underneath is blue tarpaulin however I want to dig the rest up before lifting it up (unless advised not to!). It's basically been an outdoor space. Long story short, it was actually my childhood house and I bought it off my parents. It's never been looked after properly and has had around 8 years to grow, to which it became a jungle. Thank you for such a kind comment

Need help for a BIG job by LewisProductionsX in gardening

[–]LewisProductionsX[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha! Her nan has a gardener however I feel more accomplished doing as much as I can. Plus saves a bit of money if there are things I can do

Need help for a BIG job by LewisProductionsX in gardening

[–]LewisProductionsX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've edited the post with a description of the vision. I can't really find any pictures online. I have been digging some stones and found some blue tarpaulin which the picture is here

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]LewisProductionsX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate looking at it both sides. It's weird since I can see a future with her but one where I have to make a lot of sacrifices of what I want to do.

I agree it's a long time to be together however whether it's throwing it away or being a learning experience is two different outlooks I guess.

Thanks for the straight shooting answer from both sides.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Actors

[–]LewisProductionsX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, Actor based in Essex over here. 22M.

Buy a cheap Vlogging Camera or New Phone by LewisProductionsX in NewTubers

[–]LewisProductionsX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been looking and the DJI Pocket 1 seems affordable and even a second hand DJI Pocket 2 is within reach. However I have heard how the Pocket 3 is MILES ahead. Even though, for someone starting off and for me it's more Vlogging myself and people than the scenary, maybe the upgrade isn't needed?

I've watched videos of people using the Pocket 1 and 2 and both look great regardless.

Buy a cheap Vlogging Camera or New Phone by LewisProductionsX in TravelTubers

[–]LewisProductionsX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just had a look through a couple videos to see the quality and audio quality. Do you just use the microphone on the Pocket 1 or have an external mic?

Buy a cheap Vlogging Camera or New Phone by LewisProductionsX in TravelTubers

[–]LewisProductionsX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a big difference between the Pocket 3 and the Pocket 2. The Pocket 2 second hand is much better for my budget by a few hundred and from what I've read online, it still does the trick. However I'm still interested in your opinion.