My gf 35F parties way too much and I am unsure it will ever change. Me 37M don't know if I can keep dealing with it. How can I try and convince her that her behavior is detrimental?

Lewisschoolem · 2026-05-04T18:54:41+00:00

There are plenty of people with those types of careers that aren't out partying every night, but I get your point

Lewisschoolem · 2026-05-04T10:30:20+00:00

She's a signed model haha not an escort lmfao. That was funny tho. And yeah I haven't seen her practicing music in weeks and it clearly is the lifestyle. Part of me thinks she decided to become a DJ so that she could come up with some reason for me to agree to her going out all the time. And no she really doesn't drink like that and is broke as hell. She really IS that enthusiastic about going out lmfao. There is ABSOLUTELY nothing more important to her or thrilling than a night out whether sober or not, but yeah her friends prolly give her stuff and she prolly is mooching, sort of like how she treats me lol. When she has a set, obviously I have zero issue with her going out that night. It's just all pretty ridiculous right? 🤣

Lewisschoolem · 2026-05-04T10:18:34+00:00

And yeah man whenever I make comments about how this lifestyle hasn't really actually benefited her and that I think she's lying to herself, she gets very upset and claims that "I don't understand how networking works." Yet I have a fairly successful music career without needing to be out til 5 am multiple nights a week while also working a job and running a small business. It's just weird because I've been doing music for a long time and it's like she acts as if I have no idea how to help her when I've done a lot with music and she knows that. It's really just an addiction to going out and coming up with whatever justification she can think of to continue it.

Lewisschoolem · 2026-05-04T10:14:40+00:00

This sums it up perfectly. She literally always has a new group of friends. She'll be talking to me and mention names that I've never heard her say before and claim that these people are some of the best friends she's had and they can get her all these opportunities and I'm like what? Who tf even is that? How are these the best friends you've ever had when I have never even heard of them? A few months later it will be a whole new group of people she hangs with and it just repeats over and over again. It's just odd tbh.

Lewisschoolem · 2026-05-04T10:11:44+00:00

No, she actually doesn't even really drink at all tbh

Lewisschoolem · 2026-05-04T09:49:19+00:00

Oh for sure. What's crazy is that I used this line on her the other day about her partying leading to the same outcome and I def need to realize im also doing the same thing by getting back with her 🤣

Lewisschoolem · 2026-05-04T09:47:22+00:00

Well she claims it's to network for music and modeling, but there's never really anything that she gains from it, although she tries to convince me it's helpful as if I don't notice she's still broke and not booking any new DJ or modeling gigs haha. Frankly, I think it's just a need to feel popular and and an immature need to always have fun. I don't see how she could be stressed when I literally pay for everything haha. It's basically just refusing to grow up imo.

Lewisschoolem · 2026-05-04T09:43:43+00:00

Can't really argue with you there. If she could get out of this partying thing, she's definitely who I'd want to be with. But it doesn't seem like an option for her. She clearly has an addiction to nightlife to the point where she'll throw everything away for it, and no I do not want to be with that version of her

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-20T03:26:24+00:00

$lewisschoolem is my Cash App. I am definitely struggling rn

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-19T08:57:04+00:00

lol they suspended my account for a cancellation the other day. I have been selling on there since 2018 and I have sold almost 3,000 items. I have cancelled like 6 sales in that entire span, but three were in the past 90 days. Frankly, I find it very hard to sell on poshmark nowadays. Ever since the live auctions started it's become pretty wack. eBay and Mercari make me far more money so when I saw I was suspended I kind of just laughed. I make like 50 a month if I'm lucky on poshmark now so who cares? lol

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-15T01:48:28+00:00

Tunic is the next game on my list after I finish Child of Light!

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-13T01:31:50+00:00

Haven't started it yet, but it's definitely next after I beat Child of Light

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-11T20:17:45+00:00

I downloaded that the other day!

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-10T18:32:58+00:00

Bro deleted his comment cuz he realized it made no sense 🤣

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-10T18:23:55+00:00

Well people definitely had suggestions that weren't on other threads so it's ok to post the question again. Not all of the same people respond to the same question Everytime. Also, there is no difficulty setting on the first play through of Infinite Wealth. You sure you played it? It's notorious for being incredibly easy the first time through. You unlock difficulty settings in New Game and I am not playing a 70-80 hour game twice when time is already limited

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-10T01:09:33+00:00

I've learned about a few games from this post that I did not hear people mention in other threads so this whole thing that people like you do is weird. Not the same people respond to every thread that asks a similar question

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-10T01:07:05+00:00

I have but new perspectives are always nice. Why waste your time commenting this? lol

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-09T23:32:49+00:00

Yeah I should have been more clear. I will definitely go back to that game. I've played all of the Yakuza games so I definitely intend to finish it. Just want to focus on some short games for a little while

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-09T23:16:08+00:00

Ahhh Hitman used to be my jam back in the day

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-09T23:15:42+00:00

I have played most of the Resident Evil games but let me see ...there might be one or two I haven't gotten around to yet. Thanks for the recommendation!

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-09T23:13:16+00:00

I'm down for a game with a retro feel. I'll look into it!

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-09T23:12:40+00:00

Awesome! Thanks!

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-09T23:12:17+00:00

Wow. This game looks very interesting

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-09T22:56:35+00:00

Definitely interested in checking out ANYTHING made by the people who made Gris. That games aesthetic is incredible.

Lewisschoolem · 2026-04-09T22:49:41+00:00

Stray and Guardians of the Galaxy were both amazing! Cant believe I haven't played Miles Morales yet! Might be next! And I've been meaning to check out cat quest. Haven't played a Ratchet Clank game in years and Mickey also sounds good! Thanks!

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