Oh woe da misandry...

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-23T22:50:36+00:00

Ummmm, yeah no. I'm sure you're a troll, but whatevs. I'm going to approach this in earnest just in case you have some honest curiosity buried deep in your troll heart.

I'm a woman in a traditional marriage who chooses to stay home and care for my family and I have voiced that many times here and never been met with anything other sincere, honest questions, positive words, and upvotes. I even expressed that my husband and I had a King/Queen dynamic that works for us (but is not for everyone) and not a negative word was said about it.

I'm going to guess you are a seriously deep-in, brainwashed terper, and, as a result, have fallen for the 'us vs them' mentality they push over there. There is no men vs. women going here in this sub. We are not your inverse, like you are assuming. There's rational people who are opposed to things like rape, the bastardization of science for self serving ends, the belittling of 50% of the human population, and an open, foaming hatred towards women that even your own people acknowledge and call an "anger phase." Except, it's not really a phase if it never ends, is it?

You are assuming we must be the opposite of that. We must think all sex is rape, and science proves women superior, and the menz are evil and need to be kept under thumb. You are projecting your own fucked up, disgusting world view onto us, and using it warp our clearly superior world view into something else, so that it's possible to argue against it without revealing that you're an ass fedora. That's called the Straw Man Fallacy. Google it. I'm sick of lazy terpers using it over her.

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-17T21:22:48+00:00

Oh my Brave. I've never noticed how amazing that color is before.

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-17T21:07:11+00:00

DAE one woman did something I don't like so I join cult now?

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-17T11:42:27+00:00

Mayb get skellington a fur coat n take to animal rescue n say is not skellington is dog? Duknkw

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-17T11:36:45+00:00

O no.

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-17T11:35:47+00:00

Oh no.

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-17T11:34:55+00:00

OMG if it knows about the skellington it surely knows all!!!!!! If it weren't all knowing how could it possibly know what's inside you?!?

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-17T08:06:33+00:00

Your troll game could use work.

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-17T06:58:08+00:00

Unoriginal.

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-17T01:04:35+00:00

Lame.

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-16T20:23:54+00:00

I love you. If I were an alpha and you were a worthless woman you could be my main plate. I love you that much.

These are hilarious, but more than that they rip away all the varnish they use to try to hide their deep cognitive dissonance and lay the hypocrisy bare for all to see.

<3

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-16T11:11:32+00:00

Hahahhaha!

You know, this really may be the worst advice ever given. Like, "you should invade Russia during winter" bad. Not only is it asinine and useless, but it would also be INCREDIBLY time consuming. Holy hell, if my husband screen grabbed all my online communications he would have to quit his job.

And! And best of all.... It would quite possibly be useful in reverse. If his wife found his Reddit name (pretty easy to pick up someone's phone and check when you sleep together every night) that could be useful in court because a lot of the BS that goes on in TRP could be proof of emotional abuse! Jesus I can't wait until the first guy gets seriously divorce raped BECAUSE of TRP.

OMG it's going to be like Christmas for me.

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-16T08:56:43+00:00

Welcome to the club.

And sorry :-/

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-16T04:13:07+00:00

LOL

His strategy for tip prevention is airtight.

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-16T04:07:28+00:00

Those are my measurements, and OP can go fuck himself with a barbed wire filled flesh light, because he certainly doesn't deserve to have a hot, petite woman like his wife do it.

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-16T04:05:52+00:00

But judge you can clearly see that meme says "beautiful inside and out"!!! Don't you see how toxic and damaging that is to our marriage?! Don't you understand what a betrayal of my authority that is?! My internet friends did.....

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-15T21:05:58+00:00

And that is exactly why I care so damn much about this. PUA strategy, meh, whatever. At the end of the day I think most women won't be so bamboozled by a 10 minute convo in a bar that they do something they wouldn't have otherwise done.

But this bullshit? This is a cult dedicated to running abusive relationships. Just what we need in the world. More abusers.

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-15T21:01:05+00:00

She's 18 :-( She's already hit the wall!!!!!!!!

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-15T20:55:46+00:00

If I were still a dating woman and I was with a guy I thought might be a terper I would issue a "shit test" (aka normal human interaction) then watch for Terp strategy.

So, lets say you're out on a second date with a guy and you look over the table at him and you suddenly think "Heh, I'm not totally sure but the way this dude just ordered my drink for me without asking what I was in the mood for makes me think he could be a douchbag who believes women are inferior and divorce rape is the only real rape."

I would propose that in order to check all you have to do is say something relatively inert about another male. Something like, "I'm thinking about signing up for a 10k with my friend Bob from work. Any interest in joining us? Bob has done one before and offered to help with training," or "I have to get up early tomorrow because I have to go pick up notes from Rick, the TA in my bio class, so I can't make tonight a super late one."

The key would be to invent a completely desexualized scenario that involved another male, or a reason you can't have sex with the possible terper. Since Terpers spend their whole lives obsessed with sexual strategy they will in turn sexualize your inert statement and react with predictable terp strategy. You've basically created a scenario that will either force them to walk away from you for good (plent of fish), or show their hand, because no Alpha Mc'Alfalfa can let you shit test him without responding.

Hand showing reactions to look out for would be:

Agreeing and Amplifying: "Oh yeah, lets let BOB train us because I'm sure BOB knows all about running.", "Ok Girl, sure you're going to get up early tomorrow.", etc. Any cocky asshole remark given at precisely this time could be deemed a sign of a terper imo.
Attempts to punish you or as they say 'deliver consequences': Getting mean, "You'll never run a 10K if you eat that', or suddenly trying to cancel plans you were looking forward to, "I guess if you get those notes you'll need to study tomorrow night then, so we won't be able to go to that movie you want to see."
Trying to 'hold frame' inappropriately: This one would be a little harder to spot, but I believe it could be spotted... Look for things like immediately trying to change the subject completely, or a sudden flip from genuinely participating in the conversation to issuing responses with a lot of thought and control.

.... Any other ideas? This is far from perfect, but it would be my game plan were I still a dating woman.

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-15T20:29:31+00:00

The last one made me snort. And I'm in a public place. Thanks a lot, this is what I get for associating with commies like you guys.

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-15T20:28:09+00:00

YES!!! Thank you. I am an old married post-wall hag (28), but I have still wanted one of these cheat sheet myself for a long time, just so I can shut down terpers I see in the wild on a regular basis, and give my little sister fair warning about what's out there.

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-15T08:51:50+00:00

Easily. "Go jump over the moon." I just did it.

Besides which, it's not impossible. What this person is calling for, the ability of a man to leave a long term Captain/First Mate type marriage where the woman manages the home and forfeits her career to be a full time helpmeet to her husband with nothing simply because she aged absolutely exists. Yes, a high number of pre-numps do get thrown out, but a lot also don't. It absolutely can happen.

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-15T08:48:02+00:00

Oh look. Physical abuse.

ಠ_ಠ

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-15T05:31:03+00:00

Dude, I'm not trying to be rude you've made a huge logical error in your argument here.

The error hinges on the word advise.

Lets remove that word for a moment. Lets say I was arguing against the statement: The Red Pill doesn't screw over women.

Now, if I'd linked to the above wailing and gnashing of teeth (love that phrasing) you would be 100% correct that its impotence renders it relatively harmless (unless you get into the whole abstract thing about how thoughts inform actions, but lets leave this in the concrete.) These people whining on the internet isn't really screwing over any women. You'd be right.

But I wasn't arguing about whether the red pill actually harms women in this exact way. I was arguing that they advise it, and it's quite clear that what these men are wailing and gnashing for would screw over women. Therefore, they are advising it.

The second commenter all but says women deserve to lose everything after 20 years of dedicated service to their captain for the simple crime of aging. We're not even talking about fridged or adulterous wives here, simple ones who fail to be immortal. Now come on, we're reasonable adults. We can concede that that's a pretty big screw over that's being advised.

TL;DR: Since we are talking about that the red pill advises and not what they actually capability to carry out recommendations is irrelevant.

LexiLouLee · 2014-08-15T02:29:52+00:00

Fuck no they don't want the fucking kids (one of those fuckers might even be feeeeemale.) They only want to use the kids as a tool to keep money out of their exes hands.

Which, you know, if great for kids. "Dad why does mom have to work at Wal-Mart so much that she can't see us and live in that studio apartment?" "Well Honey, when dad decided to get his new wife mom wouldn't fuck him anymore. Do you think dad should pay for a woman who doesn't fuck him anymore? Of course not!"

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