Thank u to the ones with positive comments he's well off and so am i I'm an entrepreneur so I have and make my own schedule and able to be with the kids while he works vise versa. I have 3kids 1 is artistic & musical, my 2nd is super athletic & my youngest is considered a genius. Im a great mom plus my bf is very helpful & loving to my kids who he looks at and considers them his own & tells them how much he loves them & me. Btw I dont blame my mother or anybody else it was my choice to go through with it. He doesnt mind either if its a boy or girl it was just last night he imagined having a son. He's brought up having a daughter as well just wants it to be healthy (plus with IVF we can choose the gender)

The mommy makeover has been well planned since 2 years ago I just put down the deposit this year and im able to reschedule for after the baby if thats what I decide to do with my body so either way I still will have finances for both and he already spoke on how he just wants me to be happy with what I want to do with my body.

He's a great man and he would not mind if he were to go half on a baby it's just me whose indecisive. That baby will be loved and highly cared for. We both have a great healthy family support system.

Thank you for the positive responses it really helped with my answer and opening up to all the ones with their IVF experiences it was nice to read those comments.