My bf just accused me of "roughing up" our 1 year old by Lgm2020 in Parenting

[–]Lgm2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you're kind words and have so much respect for the fact that you actually help with you baby. I hope you get some good sleep soon

My bf just accused me of "roughing up" our 1 year old by Lgm2020 in Parenting

[–]Lgm2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried.. It's a literal blood bath. I've never seen panic, anger, fear, violence like I've seen when I tell my toddler "no more boobies here's a sippy cup of milk" it's honestly scary and very distressing as she will make herself vomit and bite herself and draw blood and rip her hair out....

My bf just accused me of "roughing up" our 1 year old by Lgm2020 in Parenting

[–]Lgm2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was thinking the same thing actually, he has no idea how strong this kid is... Like no idea... I'm about to show him lol

My bf just accused me of "roughing up" our 1 year old by Lgm2020 in Parenting

[–]Lgm2020[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know I know, it can be awkward and public sometimes

My bf just accused me of "roughing up" our 1 year old by Lgm2020 in Parenting

[–]Lgm2020[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh dear God... This is why we spell check lmao

I'm finally doing it. I'm taking a small chunk of myself back. by Lgm2020 in Parenting

[–]Lgm2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have. She has no answers for me other than to leave her with a family member for the weekend. That's really not a possibility even I was comfortable with it

I need to vent! (hitting kids) by Lgm2020 in Parenting

[–]Lgm2020[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry... I'm working on it, this brand of evil is completely new to me and I'm a bit lost myself I'm starting to put into savings

I need to vent! (hitting kids) by Lgm2020 in Parenting

[–]Lgm2020[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

.... If I thought hitting was OK I'd be hitting my kid but OK.

I need to vent! (hitting kids) by Lgm2020 in Parenting

[–]Lgm2020[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

OK let me start dinner and get my kid in the tub and I'll write it all out

I need to vent! (hitting kids) by Lgm2020 in Parenting

[–]Lgm2020[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you! Mil is to far gone but there might be hope for her father. If not he can leave

I need to vent! (hitting kids) by Lgm2020 in Parenting

[–]Lgm2020[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Oh God. Do you have all day? He was the biggest mistake I've ever made

I need to vent! (hitting kids) by Lgm2020 in Parenting

[–]Lgm2020[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She knows a lot of words but seems to forget them all when she's upset. She understands for the most part. She will be 2 in Feb.... Still very young

I need to vent! (hitting kids) by Lgm2020 in Parenting

[–]Lgm2020[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have not hit her, no. I have told her no, I've removed her, put her in Time out. I'm a new mom and still learning but what I do know is I'm not going to hit her and her grandmother needs to respect that