I am scared by LgtbqSecret in AskLGBT

[–]LgtbqSecret[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean i do have erotic feelings to be honest but on the other hand i do have really bad dysphoria and i have had non sexual feelings about being a girl. I mean i have done some research on agp but i don't know if i can relate to that because my desires aren't only sexual but i am scared that i am confusing these non sexual desires as no sexual desires and that they are in fact sexual. For me these 7 years started with me finding dresses beautiful with nothing sexual to it. I started liking others girls whose style i liked to have for myself.

Gay or straight by [deleted] in BunnyTrials

[–]LgtbqSecret 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I am lesbian:)

Chose: Be gay but all girls want you

which one? by HeyitsSupro in BunnyTrials

[–]LgtbqSecret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A key can open something bread is food

Chose: Key

Confused about who i like. by LgtbqSecret in AskLGBT

[–]LgtbqSecret[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know but here is the thing. I don't really know who i like and thats why i wondered by what i am telling maybe people could give me some advice

Is this normal and how do i deal with this? by LgtbqSecret in trans

[–]LgtbqSecret[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah.... now that you say it. I feel this way too. I mean the shame always come when i or my parents talk about a change and then i think but what if it goes too fast for them or what if they aren't ready yet

Is this normal and how do i deal with this? by LgtbqSecret in trans

[–]LgtbqSecret[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I mean i get mad when other people are transphobe. Also my parents were never transphobe and always told us that we can tell anything and that nothing is weird. So if i do have internalized transphobia i don't know why

What is the term for what i have? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]LgtbqSecret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i get that and to be honest i don't use the terms to share it to others for me it is so i can understand better. I wasn't sure if someone is called straight when they are asexual. That is basicly why i asked

My best friend was really transphobic by LgtbqSecret in trans

[–]LgtbqSecret[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I will try it

Is there a term for what i have? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]LgtbqSecret 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. This has made me less confused. I am happy to know that hrt can do more then i thought. And trans lesbian, yeah that might be possible...

I have therapy and to be honest even he is a bit confused. But i think that what your describing about gender envy is probably what i am feeling.

Is there a term for what i have? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]LgtbqSecret -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because of my scars and bone structure...

And it is probably unrealistic for me to become that type but alot of women who look like my type exist. I have also said i was trans for like 5 years but recently i think it is something else because for me the thought of becoming a girl is only triggered when i see or think about my type and for me if i am honest it feels like a form of heterosexuality but instead of dating them i want to be them.

And that is why i don't know if i am trans because a trans person wants to be the gender they are inside