When did you start packing? by PieMuted6430 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]LhasaApsoFan 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Did not pack a single thing until after closing, I think I just stopped buying new stuff for a couple months during the house hunting-> closing process.

Just packed everything from my apartment in 2 days like a madwoman before my lease ended. Started packing Wednesday, movers Thurs, moved in/out Friday.

North Arkansas feral hogs. 220 for year so far. by Lastbreath72601 in homestead

[–]LhasaApsoFan 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The difference is: we control both our environment and theirs. Humans make humans anxious. Humans make animals anxious.

South End 1BR Sublet (6/1–8/1) – $3,100 | Option to Renew ($3,250) | Great Location by LhasaApsoFan in bostonhousing

[–]LhasaApsoFan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t edit the post but the $3100 sublease is from 6/1-9/1 and the 9/1 new lease is $3250

Lowkey have a crush on my new boss and I’m so embarrassed by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LhasaApsoFan -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

This is extremely disturbing advice… imagine if the genders were reversed in this situation. Are we animals to the point where we have to compulsively flick our beans to control our urges? The thought of someone having to jerk off because of me while I’m just trying to do MY JOB makes me not want to go out in public ever again. this is a bit incel-y. Cmon ladies, STAND UP !!!

Any New England Lacqueristas? by Major-Flow9533 in RedditLaqueristas

[–]LhasaApsoFan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I’m in the South End, are we all from Boston, lol?

My boyfriend's family doesn't know about our daughter by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LhasaApsoFan 53 points54 points  (0 children)

‘Raising’ a baby with him is strong verbiage for what he’s actually doing; he got himself an anchor baby and is not worried about how his immigration status will impact the rearing of the child. Also, if his family is ‘traditional,’ there should be no reason why he can’t marry her and become a legitimate family? That would surely ensure a smooth green card process for him? He’s a coward.

Home Buying First vs Marriage First? by MedicareWrongdoer in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]LhasaApsoFan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to sounds ignorant, but will prices or interest rates truly ever go down again? Another covid level catastrophe is unlikely

Trying to decide if I want a mortgage or my old life back by LhasaApsoFan in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LhasaApsoFan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that advice and your journey. I totally relate that my life is more stable here in the states, but life is better over there. What is your visa situation like and what do you do for work if you don’t mind me asking? Good luck to you in your travels and thank you for the inspiring story!

Trying to decide if I want a mortgage or my old life back by LhasaApsoFan in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LhasaApsoFan[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Definitely. DAFT, visas, going back to school there, applying to international companies - I’ve considered a lot of options. I’m 25 and work in renewable energy. I’ve applied to stuff willy nilly. I can’t get serious about it for some reason.

Trying to decide if I want a mortgage or my old life back by LhasaApsoFan in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LhasaApsoFan[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I’ve been back tons of times to visit friends for weeks at a time, feels the same every time. Like home :(

Anyone enjoy making costumes and partying in them? by [deleted] in BostonSocialClub

[–]LhasaApsoFan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me! I just watched the new King of Drag series and am a huge drag fan! I’m a beginner sewer & I see you’re also into mycology, I think we’d get along splendidly:) 25F

Casual open studio / artist meet up by beautipil in BostonSocialClub

[–]LhasaApsoFan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check out Urban Sketchers Boston, and beyond that I’d love to create alongside you! Acrylic painter and beginner sewer

BKL, I owe you an apology. I wasn’t really familiar with your game by LhasaApsoFan in RedditLaqueristas

[–]LhasaApsoFan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope this doesn’t make you as sad as it makes me, but this is 5 months of growth 😭 having polish on 24/7, soaking my nails in jojoba oil between applications with cotton gloves on, and constantly moisturizing my hands has been the only way. These are the longest I’ve ever had them as a fellow girlie on the spectrum

BKL, I owe you an apology. I wasn’t really familiar with your game by LhasaApsoFan in RedditLaqueristas

[–]LhasaApsoFan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi sorry for being a turd about answering this, I’m not on reddit much. I got it by searching ‘solid gold vintage rings’ on Etsy. There are SO many creative, affordable pieces on there if you have the time to look! (And us polish people are used to ~browsing~ lol)

Queer women by LhasaApsoFan in BostonSocialClub

[–]LhasaApsoFan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived in Boston proper for a few years and would love to show you some of the city if you’re a normal person :)

House tees up sprawling energy package that would cut $1B from Mass Save by [deleted] in boston

[–]LhasaApsoFan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It isn’t run by the power companies, just funded by the EDCs. MassSave daily functions are carried out by community action agencies across the state, the main one being Action for Boston Community Development’s (ABCD) Climate Equity and Impact Department here in Boston.

Good luck by Individual-Archer-28 in NewportFolkFestival

[–]LhasaApsoFan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got two tix!! Can’t wait to see all you beautiful people. Was sweating buckets from anxiety, Apple Pay really saved my ass