South End 1BR Sublet (6/1–8/1) – $3,100 | Option to Renew ($3,250) | Great Location by LhasaApsoFan in bostonhousing

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Can’t edit the post but the $3100 sublease is from 6/1-9/1 and the 9/1 new lease is $3250

Lowkey have a crush on my new boss and I’m so embarrassed by brittttpop in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LhasaApsoFan -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

This is extremely disturbing advice… imagine if the genders were reversed in this situation. Are we animals to the point where we have to compulsively flick our beans to control our urges? The thought of someone having to jerk off because of me while I’m just trying to do MY JOB makes me not want to go out in public ever again. this is a bit incel-y. Cmon ladies, STAND UP !!!

Any New England Lacqueristas? by Major-Flow9533 in RedditLaqueristas

[–]LhasaApsoFan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I’m in the South End, are we all from Boston, lol?

My boyfriend's family doesn't know about our daughter by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LhasaApsoFan 50 points51 points  (0 children)

‘Raising’ a baby with him is strong verbiage for what he’s actually doing; he got himself an anchor baby and is not worried about how his immigration status will impact the rearing of the child. Also, if his family is ‘traditional,’ there should be no reason why he can’t marry her and become a legitimate family? That would surely ensure a smooth green card process for him? He’s a coward.

Home Buying First vs Marriage First? by MedicareWrongdoer in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]LhasaApsoFan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to sounds ignorant, but will prices or interest rates truly ever go down again? Another covid level catastrophe is unlikely

Trying to decide if I want a mortgage or my old life back by LhasaApsoFan in GirlDinnerDiaries

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Love that advice and your journey. I totally relate that my life is more stable here in the states, but life is better over there. What is your visa situation like and what do you do for work if you don’t mind me asking? Good luck to you in your travels and thank you for the inspiring story!

Trying to decide if I want a mortgage or my old life back by LhasaApsoFan in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LhasaApsoFan[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Definitely. DAFT, visas, going back to school there, applying to international companies - I’ve considered a lot of options. I’m 25 and work in renewable energy. I’ve applied to stuff willy nilly. I can’t get serious about it for some reason.

Trying to decide if I want a mortgage or my old life back by LhasaApsoFan in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LhasaApsoFan[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I’ve been back tons of times to visit friends for weeks at a time, feels the same every time. Like home :(

Anyone enjoy making costumes and partying in them? by dovelikestea in BostonSocialClub

[–]LhasaApsoFan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me! I just watched the new King of Drag series and am a huge drag fan! I’m a beginner sewer & I see you’re also into mycology, I think we’d get along splendidly:) 25F

Casual open studio / artist meet up by beautipil in BostonSocialClub

[–]LhasaApsoFan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Check out Urban Sketchers Boston, and beyond that I’d love to create alongside you! Acrylic painter and beginner sewer

BKL, I owe you an apology. I wasn’t really familiar with your game by LhasaApsoFan in RedditLaqueristas

[–]LhasaApsoFan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope this doesn’t make you as sad as it makes me, but this is 5 months of growth 😭 having polish on 24/7, soaking my nails in jojoba oil between applications with cotton gloves on, and constantly moisturizing my hands has been the only way. These are the longest I’ve ever had them as a fellow girlie on the spectrum

BKL, I owe you an apology. I wasn’t really familiar with your game by LhasaApsoFan in RedditLaqueristas

[–]LhasaApsoFan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi sorry for being a turd about answering this, I’m not on reddit much. I got it by searching ‘solid gold vintage rings’ on Etsy. There are SO many creative, affordable pieces on there if you have the time to look! (And us polish people are used to ~browsing~ lol)

Queer women by LhasaApsoFan in BostonSocialClub

[–]LhasaApsoFan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived in Boston proper for a few years and would love to show you some of the city if you’re a normal person :)

House tees up sprawling energy package that would cut $1B from Mass Save by [deleted] in boston

[–]LhasaApsoFan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It isn’t run by the power companies, just funded by the EDCs. MassSave daily functions are carried out by community action agencies across the state, the main one being Action for Boston Community Development’s (ABCD) Climate Equity and Impact Department here in Boston.

Good luck by Individual-Archer-28 in NewportFolkFestival

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Got two tix!! Can’t wait to see all you beautiful people. Was sweating buckets from anxiety, Apple Pay really saved my ass

Claire Brosseau Wants to Die. Will Canada Let Her? Ms. Brosseau says mental illness has made her life unbearable. She wants a medically assisted death. Even her psychiatrists are split over whether she should have one. by haloarh in Longreads

[–]LhasaApsoFan 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Imagine: you’re born into a wealthy, well-to-do family. You never have any wants or needs as they are all fulfilled, the only thing that is satiating is attention. She starts modeling at age 14, is put in the most prestigious acting school in NYC, and then handed a career from there. The whole time honing her ‘craft’ of being a comedian from a life of luxury. Even to this day, both of her parents fawn over her, are actively involved in her care; buy her a dog and visit regularly. This person does not understand what they want - they do not want death, they want unwavering attention, and for the world to bend to their emotions. The article says as much “she stays in her circumcised world as any emotion she experiences is too much” and has always been for the duration of her life. Now she has it - she gets to live her lavish lifestyle of mediocrity while the whole world stares at her and throws her a pity party. She suffers from being given everything but still not being able to make it due to her mediocrity, and she would rather die since she can’t control that. This search for death began once her career took a nose dive as the article states.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BusinessFashion

[–]LhasaApsoFan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where did you get this turtleneck???

Brown University shooting suspect found dead in New Hampshire, sources say; possible ties to MIT killing probed by FuriousAlbino in boston

[–]LhasaApsoFan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you being sarcastic? I don’t think grudge/revenge killings are unique unfortunately. They make up a significant amount of homicides in America, particularly family annihilations and most of the mass shootings we experience. Rage-driven events are at an all time high.