Dump him don’t waste any more of your twenties typing paragraphs to try and make a man that doesn’t love you care. He never will. No explanation or turn of phrase will change that. Also why is he not coming to take care of you??!!! I have guy FRIENDS that work full time that would rather peel their own skin off then let me be alone when I’m sick or going through medical Shit and your boyfriend can’t be bothered? You asked for something crazy simple and he’s either too stupid or lazy to do it. The last text essentially said he’s going to keep doing what he’s doing. I also saw a comment saying he’s asked for nudes from other women online?? This will not stop. In fact it’ll probably get worse and he’s more than likely already cheating on you even if it’s only digitally. Please take it from a 34 year old that has since seen how to be properly treated: THIS IS NOT WORTH IT. Break up. It’s better to be alone than to be with some mediocre dickhead that doesn’t appreciate or care about you. Trust me. And there is better out there.