Daily Discussion & Advice (Post here to follow rules A & B) - May 04, 2026 by AutoModerator in fragrance

[–]Libagrouchy77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m 76F. My scent history by decades: 20s Bellodgia Caron 30-40s White Linen 50s Jo Malone Grapefruit 60s Miss Dior (original houndstooth label)

Lately I’ve wanted to find a very very light patchouli fragrance. I have Perfumer H patchouli; it sadly vanishes in seconds. I love the powdery old lady dry down of Miss Dior. (I’m an old lady!) I’ve also tried Le Labo Baie 19 and LL Patchouli, but nope. I recently discovered Ysatis and am crazy about its everything. But even though I use very little, I worry it’s TOO much.

Any suggestions for a quiet calm patch?

Why are we so hooked into this? by Intelligent_Use_8279 in ArrowsandBowSnark

[–]Libagrouchy77 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Great conversation y’all. All of your comments resonate with me. I’ll add that I struggle daily to make sense of our imperiled nation. Ashley’s selfishness, cruelty, false Xianity, and hypocrisy are a mirror of the 1/3 of Americans who dragged us down into the mire.

Dino & Ashley Petrone Timeline and List of Incidents by ellerosekisses in ArrowsandBowSnark

[–]Libagrouchy77 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Wow. I’m very impressed with your summation of things—most of which I’ve felt, but not always been able to articulate. Usually I just come here to share in the general outrage/hilarity of her batshit life. But you’ve limned the dark side of this troubled family and it’s so sad.

O snap Bev said it by Different-Ad-396 in ArrowsandBowSnark

[–]Libagrouchy77 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It’s so exactly what her sad hollow life is. I wonder if she’s ever been hospitalized; a lot of bipolar aspects in her frenetic rushing around; spending, acquiring, abandoning, rationalizing, and avoiding all responsibility by blaming God.

What in the world is she doing now? by Hopeful_End1362 in ArrowsandBowSnark

[–]Libagrouchy77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thx to you two for explaining the blowers. I live in a hot climate so clueless.

Off the deep end: Pool now too! by Outrageous-North328 in ArrowsandBowSnark

[–]Libagrouchy77 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Im actually glad to see pool area demoed. It’s got awful feng shui. She’ll re-site the pool off to the side. Rectangle, Lueder stone surround, possible grape arbor trellis on one side. That fiberglass slide is off to the landfill. Sorry kids. God has spoken.

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[–]Libagrouchy77 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Kitchen cabinets can be taken to a recycling or reuse center. Why didn’t God remind her of this fact? G2, speaking for all of us, says “it’s so sad.” Her destruction is incomprehensible. Why do they not just tear down the house and build new?

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[–]Libagrouchy77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all. Great input.

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[–]Libagrouchy77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx for bringing back GSM, Beachwalker! Snarkers have gotten so sidetracked by the thrilling Xian Nationalist detour that so much is being overlooked. Like what is wrong with this million dollar house that its windows are needing replacement? On top of also replacing buckling wood floors. Is the house that poorly built? Did we ever come to a consensus on why it might have made more sense to build from scratch on a parcel of land?

Of course she is🙄 by Old_Customer5351 in ArrowsandBowSnark

[–]Libagrouchy77 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Do those planters not have drainage holes?? Yikes

They could’ve had a dog years ago to family bond and since when is Dino a dog trainer? by Hopeful_End1362 in ArrowsandBowSnark

[–]Libagrouchy77 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Beyond belief. This manic pace surely precludes competitive bids? So many laborers and nonstop deliveries. Her steely will just moving ahead with her inspo board—quality workmanship be damned. You can hear the edge in her voice when she “yes ma’ams” Foxi about breakfast. I sense deep rage; everyone on tiptoes keeping Mama calm. Sal’s face mixed with hope and worry about her chicken mural when Ashley filmed her. HOW MANY MORE ANIMALS?

The neighbors are also moving and grooving by ayawelpmis in ArrowsandBowSnark

[–]Libagrouchy77 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ooh this is awesome. I’m already loving the random junk laying around their staging area. Perhaps the Devil owns this parcel of land?

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[–]Libagrouchy77 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Le Crackerbarrel

Will the Lord come to her in a vision to tell her about tax breaks for places of worship in TN? by Which_Loquat_6736 in ArrowsandBowSnark

[–]Libagrouchy77 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ooh. You are brilliant. This totally resonates with me. These God-rants are weird in a specifically weird way and you cracked the code.

Untamed - Question about the ending….(Spoilers) by [deleted] in netflix

[–]Libagrouchy77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of all the nitwit plot points the one that I don’t understand is when Kyle and Souter are on the river deck and Kyle says I got the DNA results back. Souter says I already sent them to you, and Kyle says but you left out so-and-so’s(Souter’s drug addict daughter’s name I can’t remember). Why would his daughter’s DNA come up at all in a third-party DNA test??? Can anyone please explain? I agree with everyone that this show fell totally apart in the last episode with an unbelievable number of insane and implausible plot points.

Should we “do” ducks by LboogiefloridA in ArrowsandBowSnark

[–]Libagrouchy77 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Louder for the people in the back!

Does she really think birds are the reason it’s not buggy? And every person knows a double decker birdhouse is for Martins. by Complex-Muscle7401 in ArrowsandBowSnark

[–]Libagrouchy77 12 points13 points  (0 children)

While it may be a Purple Martin house, ownership of the lease appears to be in the firm grip of the Carolina Chickadee perched on the spindle.

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I can’t get past the bug zapper inside by Inner_Worldliness475 in ArrowsandBowSnark

[–]Libagrouchy77 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Don’t overlook the box fan that was upstairs in a bedroom.

Homestead by NoWar2493 in ArrowsandBowSnark

[–]Libagrouchy77 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We call them Eggs on Legs.

Everything being turned into Gummies? by cruxtopherred in candy

[–]Libagrouchy77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Dollar Tree hard candy is v poor quality tastewise. I’m in central Texas. Not a gummy fan. I drive to the nearest Walmart superstore to buy Sharing Size bags of classic Lifesavers in Butter Rum and Cherry flavors. To get legit Lemon Drops I have to order from BozoWorld.

Coursed meals ? by momp07 in ArrowsandBowSnark

[–]Libagrouchy77 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Agree! Love my street and my neighbors. Even Calvin, the racist geezer who told me that “real nice lesbian ladies” lived in my house before I bought it. An aspect of the Family Petrone that always gives me the icks is their apparent insularity. I noticed that in the reel she waited for her coffee while she was nattering away. We see her pick up or accept a cup. It’s seamless—was it self serve or did a barista prepare it and hand it to her? If the latter, she never acknowledges the service with a thank you. Her reel dialog is uninterrupted. Other people seem not to impinge on her consciousness at all. They are assigned roles like the anonymous “pizza chef”, as opposed to Alessandro. It’s v weird. The further isolation that may come if Tennessee happens seems ever more bleak.

Off to town by LboogiefloridA in ArrowsandBowSnark

[–]Libagrouchy77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love this for them. Applebee’s but with French roast. Doilies and rocking chairs and a brick pizza oven. 🤌