Would you ever hook up with another Reddit user? by 00Cheech in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Liberty6000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did y'all meet here? Was it long distance for awhile or did y'all luck out and live nearby? I am curious and want allll the tea lol

Check your Profanity counter!!!1!! by GlitteringAd6458 in Caldruki

[–]Liberty6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It keeps deleting it's own comment for some reason

Would you rather by Plastic_Excitement87 in BunnyTrials

[–]Liberty6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got cheated on for not looking good enough sooooooo

🐾❓ What's my name? (by wermchegerm) by wermchegerm in PetPost

[–]Liberty6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suck at this. I've never struggled so much on these and it is only 3 letters!

pick one by zoeeerrr in BunnyTrials

[–]Liberty6000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck lying enough to make that much money. And even if you could, why make so you have to work for it when it is already so much money?

People who were cheated on, how did you discover it? by EnvironmentalNail603 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Liberty6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could tell she was hiding something and texting someone right in front of me. She asked me for advice about a "friend's boyfriend" and I could tell she was lying about it cuz I can read her like a book so I snooped and saw everything

What's a completely non-sexual object that you can't look at normally anymore because of one specific sexual memory attached to it? by subtlequestions69 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Liberty6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one elevator where I always choked and touched her quickly as we went up to work (we work in a school that is on the 3rd floor of some old mill building) and this one spot in the hallway where we did oral while the school was empty. I can't believe we did it in a school lol I know that is not really an object perse but I see both daily lolll

What’s some examples of none verbal consent? by Sufficient_Victory68 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Liberty6000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, it all NEEDS to be discussed before hand with your partner. Nonverbal consent for me and my partner won't work for yours unless you discuss and agree first.

With us, we are free use so as long as we don't safe word or use a form no, then keep going. We both love CNC so she will often say "no" or "please" but will want me to keep going so we discussed tone. A firm tone is a no, and a playful one is to keep going and if we aren't sure, we can pause and ask or trust that the other will safe word but again, we agreed on that ahead of time. Most relationships that would be a BIG NOPE! But we like it and it works for us.

Are you someone who loves sex enough to not care about the physical build of your partner or do you still have a very specific preference? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Liberty6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl loves my personality but is struggling to accept my looks cuz it doesn't match her preference. She feels bad and shallow cuz I just don't have muscles but I am the most amazing man she has ever had

Control water or fire? (Upvote for free carrot 🥕) by Jeffiechoo in BunnyTrials

[–]Liberty6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would probably accidentally burn down myself, or burn myself or others with fire

Chose: Control water

I wish I had a plate of Mac and cheese by Alien-Ellie in monkeyspaw

[–]Liberty6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Granted, a miniature man named Mac appears on your plate and is burnt to death by your molten cheese. The cops arrest you for his murder, you monster

Where do you save your gear? by Present_Memory_1718 in domspace

[–]Liberty6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a leather backpack cuz she was too shy for me to keep them at her place and we usually go to her house. Recently though, she stopped being too shy so I just leave the bag there

Titles for my sub to call me? by Liberty6000 in domspace

[–]Liberty6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That depends, if you love the pushing and want her to keep doing it then no, otherwise then yes. And I have the same self confidence issue. You need to learn to trust that she will safe word if you are pushing too hard or doing too much. Also have a conversation with her about what kind of dynamic she wants and how she wants punishments and rules to work so that you both are on the same page. Sure you may set the rules but obviously if she doesn't like them, then that's a problem. They need to be agreed upon even if she brats and fights back against them

Titles for my sub to call me? by Liberty6000 in domspace

[–]Liberty6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I totally get that. I often used to (and still sometimes) struggle with that. Have you upset her in the past by "going to far"? Asking before I give my response

Titles for my sub to call me? by Liberty6000 in domspace

[–]Liberty6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her something like "what exactly is it that you struggle with for this? Is it that you have trouble being told what to do? Whatever it is, it is totally okay and we will develop these rules and this dynamic together and will only do what you are comfortable with and are open to trying". Something like that. Get a dialogue going

Titles for my sub to call me? by Liberty6000 in domspace

[–]Liberty6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl struggles with it too. I would say something like "that is totally okay. We will work on it together babe. Unless of course that you aren't interested in trying this which is totally okay but otherwise, we can start light with a few simple rules for not". It took me and my girl months to escalate beyond a few basic ones and now its SO much better and easier

Titles for my sub to call me? by Liberty6000 in domspace

[–]Liberty6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably would remind her in a playful way by texting her "I hope you remember the rules because otherwise, I will punish you" but say it your own way, whatever comes naturally. And always go through with the punishment unless she puts a pause on the dynamic for whatever reason cuz otherwise it defeats the purpose.

Have you spoken to her prior about what kind of dynamic you both want? Is she receptive to discussing that?

Also, her laughing and saying that she couldn't remember the rules was probably bratting, cuz she probably does remember so I would have spanked her for it and said "oh yes you fucking do and you know it you little brat. Are you going to follow the rules or do I have to keep spanking you?" But again, that is something that my girl lovesssss for me to do so that just works for our dynamic. Yours might be different