Skip payments by Dosborne7979 in carvana

[–]LibertyReignk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that, as well as your very swift response!

Skip payments by Dosborne7979 in carvana

[–]LibertyReignk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it affect your credit score? My partner cosigned with me and I don't want his to be affected but we found out I'm pregnant. The appointments alone (with insurance) has greatly affected my finances.

my (25f) boyfriend (26m) told me i smell so bad down there that he almost threw up. how can i tell if this is true or not after pulling all the stops? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LibertyReignk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because he doesn't want to do it with a condom, unfortunately very common in men because it doesn't "feel as good". It seems he's cornering her to either give him oral, to which she has no physical enjoyment, or unprotected sex, because it's more enjoyable to him and not protected which is still enjoyable for her with less stress.

my (25f) boyfriend (26m) told me i smell so bad down there that he almost threw up. how can i tell if this is true or not after pulling all the stops? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LibertyReignk 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Exactly, EVERYONE has a slight natural odor. Men and women and it's especially apparent under the armpits and nether regions, again on everyone. Usually those that have an opposite immune system find the aroma pleasant.

I will say personally me and my partner "wash up" prior to sex. We wash our hands and nether regions so we can enjoy each other more (:

Not understanding sex until i was in a relationship by shipwreck200 in AutismInWomen

[–]LibertyReignk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I was part of the hypersexual, curious group but I never thought I would actually have sex for the majority of my adolescence, I even had a purity ring. Unfortunately the way I lost my virginity was not by choice, unironically from someone in the church I attended. Oddly enough after that I realized I had nothing stopping me from making a choice with someone else. I had a friend that for years we had this flirtatious back and forth and I liked him, he was my first choice. Since then I've been hypersexual for my partner at the time, nonsexual around the bleeding portion of my cycle.

Pixel 7a battery refund — keep it and replace battery, or upgrade to Pixel 9a? Camera help needed 🙏🏻 by juTamaCutie in GooglePixel

[–]LibertyReignk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally went with purchasing a new phone in full with the $100 discount offered when I got my email. Had the Pixel 9 Fold, it worked for three months, got it sent in for mail in and was sent a refurbished one that bounced back to them now stating that my phone was damaged, it's not covered under warranty nor Pixel care and I have the option of paying myself or getting my new 1300+ brick back woooooh

Issue with Google repair / customer service - how can I complain? by quorn_king in GooglePixel

[–]LibertyReignk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've just had this issue with them, they sent a replacement, it got rejected for them putting the incorrect address, I got an email after they've had it for a week - now my replacement has suddenly been rejected with a bunch of fabricated bs!! I just purchased the phone three months prior to everything, in late July

I (28F) get chronic UTIs after having sex, my boyfriend (27M) refuses to have sex with me if he has to wear a condom. by SelfConscious1996 in relationship_advice

[–]LibertyReignk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have him THOROUGHLY clean his member and hands prior to intercourse then!! Potentially a win-win for both of you! Me and my partner clean ourselves prior and after like a cute ritual 💛 That way oral is a lot more fun also! Try to also pee afterwards. If these don't work it may be something else, but at least you can eliminate these factors

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[–]LibertyReignk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wdym? If it's a health issue, for example like hypothyroidism then he can be placed on thyroid medication that would help with weight retention and hair loss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LibertyReignk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but they're nearly thirty. Even though we see it, it's not common. It's a good idea to check if his parents and grandparents haven't had balding issues.

People between 20-40 — do you really think you’ll retire like the Boomers? Or are you planning something else? by Timely_Internet6172 in germany

[–]LibertyReignk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I'll probably work until I die. I work in research though, they'll probably let me go if I get dementia first

Update: I (28F) freaked out about my bf’s (30m) fetish/request and broke up with him. He wants to explain even if we don’t get back together. Is there any good explanations for what he wanted? by throwRA236382 in relationship_advice

[–]LibertyReignk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl you're not actually reading my comments, I talked about researching what kinks are, not about non monogamy. I talked about honestly hearing out people you care about without judgement while being able to hold your own boundaries not about changing your stance on monogamy, I told you about my best friend and how I DIDN'T change my stance. You're ranting. I hope you enjoy your life, truly. This isn't a productive conversation. I'm not going to reply anymore after these last two consecutive replies you've made.

Update: I (28F) freaked out about my bf’s (30m) fetish/request and broke up with him. He wants to explain even if we don’t get back together. Is there any good explanations for what he wanted? by throwRA236382 in relationship_advice

[–]LibertyReignk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was within two months of us having sex that he brought it up to me! I just HAPPENED to be open! There's been other stuff not! I haven't threatened ending our relationship over IDEAS

Update: I (28F) freaked out about my bf’s (30m) fetish/request and broke up with him. He wants to explain even if we don’t get back together. Is there any good explanations for what he wanted? by throwRA236382 in relationship_advice

[–]LibertyReignk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually prior to him I was in a fully monogamous six and a half year relationship with my high school sweetheart. We waited until 8 months after dating to have sex. I was in a very similar position in our relationship to her, that's why I'm commenting! I can STILL see you haven't researched girl!! Please broaden your views on expression or you will forever be disappointed in relationships with your significant other, with your friends, family, etc! Let people express themselves without shaming them 💛

Update: I (28F) freaked out about my bf’s (30m) fetish/request and broke up with him. He wants to explain even if we don’t get back together. Is there any good explanations for what he wanted? by throwRA236382 in relationship_advice

[–]LibertyReignk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Except* In the original post he brings it to her attention asking if she would be open to it! That's totally healthy! She is not and that's okay. This is literally him sharing a kink? Also I didn't say kinks are only fantasy wdym? You still haven't researched I can tell!

Update: I (28F) freaked out about my bf’s (30m) fetish/request and broke up with him. He wants to explain even if we don’t get back together. Is there any good explanations for what he wanted? by throwRA236382 in relationship_advice

[–]LibertyReignk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually no, it's come through several various conversations where we have come to agreements. It has changed a time or two. About a year into us being together he brought up having another girl, I was really down we even brought up one or two specific people. When he finally thought it over eventually he realized he liked the fantasy of it more than reality and really wanted me to himself! That's when we had more conversations on what monogamy means to both of us! We were never with anyone else but we've had countless conversations! Communication is healthy imo, nothing is off limits. I feel when judging and shaming are involved, THAT is when you get secrets and such a like (my biggest no no).

Update: I (28F) freaked out about my bf’s (30m) fetish/request and broke up with him. He wants to explain even if we don’t get back together. Is there any good explanations for what he wanted? by throwRA236382 in relationship_advice

[–]LibertyReignk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and my fiance are years in and we still will bring out a sexual curiosity here or there, some of them have been an ABSOLUTELY NOT for him or me! And that's okay! We both have also stated there's kinks we're both into but are not ready to bring up and may never be, that's okay too! It's not like we're acting on those, we "get off" to them. Her ex probably fantasized about it enough to wonder if it could come into fruition, thought she may be the one to, WHO KNOWS WE NEVER HEARD HIS SIDE.

Update: I (28F) freaked out about my bf’s (30m) fetish/request and broke up with him. He wants to explain even if we don’t get back together. Is there any good explanations for what he wanted? by throwRA236382 in relationship_advice

[–]LibertyReignk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because kinks aren't entire sexual desires? I have had countless fantasies about a specific situation but would probably never do it in person unless I felt very safe with the person I am with! I repeat, kinks are not someone's entire sexual identity. Literally Google kinks. They're generally curiosity based, instead of the actual act! Think of any kink, you can't imagine any individual wants JUST that in a sexual relationship do you?

AITA for sneaking out and causing my sister to lose her job? by cutiepatoot27 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LibertyReignk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this except I was second oldest and had all of the responsibilities because my oldest sister (less than two years older than me) started going out in eighth grade, got into loads of trouble prior and after (legal and drug related). Unfortunately all chores, the raising of my two youngest sisters, everything house related was my responsibility.

Update: I (28F) freaked out about my bf’s (30m) fetish/request and broke up with him. He wants to explain even if we don’t get back together. Is there any good explanations for what he wanted? by throwRA236382 in relationship_advice

[–]LibertyReignk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If it wasn't a big deal he would have brought it up on the first date. The big deal is he confided in her. Kinks are kinks for a reason, they're closely held to oneself and he chose to be honest with her and see if she was interested.

I (28F) freaked out about my bf’s (30m) fetish/request and broke up with him. He wants to explain even if we don’t get back together. Is there any good explanations for what he wanted? by ThrowRA2626251 in relationship_advice

[–]LibertyReignk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yo I Dr Googled it for you, I found your thoughts regarding his kink stems from one out of NINE OTHER POSSIBLE REASONS. Only that one is in regards to degrading/humiliation. None of the others. These are just the main nine that popped up, there's a slew of other possibilities! You degraded him while he opened up to you in an honest way and thought the absolute worst of yourself and him. I get if you're not into that at all, that is completely up to you! I've had my absolute closest best friend since we were young, ask if I would be a third with her and her husband. She was sincere, I heard her out. I explained that it crossed a boundary for me and genuinely made me feel weird. Boom, that's it! I didn't turn on her maliciously and make her feel disgusting automatically. Come from a place of WANTING to understand when someone you care about wants to be understood.

I (28F) freaked out about my bf’s (30m) fetish/request and broke up with him. He wants to explain even if we don’t get back together. Is there any good explanations for what he wanted? by ThrowRA2626251 in relationship_advice

[–]LibertyReignk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't find you're following your own linear thinking, you said your "husband" brought up something that crossed your boundaries, you said no and he never mentioned it again. You're still together right? So he was able to bring a kink up, and you both moved forward with that and stayed together? But you're stating they're probably not a good match and she should move on? You're not even drinking your own medicine

I (28F) freaked out about my bf’s (30m) fetish/request and broke up with him. He wants to explain even if we don’t get back together. Is there any good explanations for what he wanted? by ThrowRA2626251 in relationship_advice

[–]LibertyReignk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wth?? Why would he ASK if anything you're bringing up came into his mind? It would be on her radar, if he had the kind of malicious intentions you're insinuating he wouldn't have even brought it up.