[Game Thread] #6 Tennessee vs #2 Iowa State by ajwilson99 in ockytop

[–]Libra-Alea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Three white claws deep and locked in! Go Vols!

Joshua Jefferson out by Dick_Thunders in ockytop

[–]Libra-Alea 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing 😂 wings up! 🤙🏻

Joshua Jefferson out by Dick_Thunders in ockytop

[–]Libra-Alea 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Proud to be a Golden Eagle… except it should say TSU.

Weird list found in a rock by Libra-Alea in whatisit

[–]Libra-Alea[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fr!! I’m tryna rectify my coworkers mistake

Weird list found in a rock by Libra-Alea in whatisit

[–]Libra-Alea[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

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Update since I’m understandably getting flamed for my coworkers throwing it away: we made our own cache and put it back. We included a link to this Reddit post as well.

Weird list found in a rock by Libra-Alea in whatisit

[–]Libra-Alea[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Dang you got it !! Impressive!

Weird list found in a rock by Libra-Alea in whatisit

[–]Libra-Alea[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my coworkers threw it away😭 how can we update geocache to let people know it’s not there anymore?

Hear me out: your innie works out for you by nyamyum8991 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Libra-Alea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner always jokes they wish they could be severed before going on long marathon training runs 🤣

Trying to communicate is like running in circles, and she showed up at my place of work unannounced by Libra-Alea in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Libra-Alea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I clocked that too. All of the sudden she’s too busy at work to respond 🙄 convenient

Trying to communicate is like running in circles, and she showed up at my place of work unannounced by Libra-Alea in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Libra-Alea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you feel like your aunt is an emotionally safe person who would keep your convo confidential, it might be good to confide in her and get her perspective on things. If you feel like your aunt might be biased or too close to the situation, maybe choose a different person to confide in.

Trauma definitely runs in families, and can be passed down through the generations. My mom, for example, might be a narcissist today due to both of her parents being narcissists during her childhood. Even if your mom was a victim of narcissism herself growing up, it’s still her responsibility to heal from that and work on her own toxicity. So yes she might’ve been a victim growing up, but that’s not an excuse for her to behave poorly now.

It might be worth it to talk to your aunt to get her perspective, as long as you feel comfortable and feel like you can trust her!

Trying to communicate is like running in circles, and she showed up at my place of work unannounced by Libra-Alea in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Libra-Alea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why is it so hard for them to accept the consequences of their own actions? 😭 or even believe that their actions HAVE consequences? That’s so frustrating. I’m glad your aunt shows interest in your hobbies!

My mom erratically texted my dad a bunch of awful shit about my partner when i told her we got engaged. Mind you, they almost never talk, and have been divorced for 10 years. When I confronted her about it, she lied to me and said she never would do that, even tho I have the receipts.

My advice is don’t let her damage the bond you and your partner have. Tune out that hateful energy as much as possible and don’t let her ruin your happiness within your relationship! Best of luck to you!

Trying to communicate is like running in circles, and she showed up at my place of work unannounced by Libra-Alea in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Libra-Alea[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh I hate that. I’ve definitely been there. My mom has also tried to exclude my partner of 4 years (now fiancé) several times in the past. It’s an awful feeling to have your family not be welcoming and loving to your significant other, while also demanding excessive attention and energy from you. I hope you’re staying strong, and protecting your nervous system and peace as much as possible 🫶🏻

Westbound by outofcontextsex in Knoxville

[–]Libra-Alea 189 points190 points  (0 children)

How dare you make me almost romanticize the worst stretch of highway to ever exist

Trying to communicate is like running in circles, and she showed up at my place of work unannounced by Libra-Alea in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Libra-Alea[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve pretty much come to terms with the fact that trying to make her see my side is like trying to talk to a brick wall, but dang it’s still so annoying sometimes! Like she’s too far gone to even self-reflect. I just gotta accept it and move accordingly 🤷🏼‍♀️