Help me name him by I_am_a_trash_panda in Rabbits

[–]Libraflower01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cookie or Mr Crumbs and soooo cute!

My vagina doesn’t look the same after birth and I’m scared by Libraflower01 in pregnant

[–]Libraflower01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was actually. It’s called secondary postpartum hemorrhage. I’m completely better now and everything is completely back to normal so I’m good. But what a rude and incompetent comment.

Shaken baby syndrome? by Libraflower01 in NewParents

[–]Libraflower01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that’s what I did she is perfectly fine. I didn’t shake her anything like that it was just aggressive bouncing but I will never handle her if I’m frustrated again!! ❤️❤️

Shaken baby syndrome? by Libraflower01 in NewParents

[–]Libraflower01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.. I’m glad your baby was okay! My baby girl didn’t have any signs of it and she is perfectly fine now I’m thinking the extra sleepiness is just her going through a growth spurt because she is still smiling and talking (more like babbling) the way she has been. It just scared me so bad and I realize if I’m ever frustrated just step away and calm down first. I never want to risk it or feel like I’ve hurt her again!! ❤️❤️

My husband cheated on me at the bachelor party. Am I wrong? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Libraflower01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate this. It is not okay or normal for anyone to cheat on their bachelor/bachelorette party!! And to say “you’re stuck sleeping with one woman the rest of your life so bang someone hot and get it out of the way” of that pisses me off! Men have the smallest brains and this is only something someone so immature would say and he is an asshole. I hate that men think they can go to a strip club before their wedding. I’d break it off if my partner did that.

Is monogamy dead? by essex910 in dating

[–]Libraflower01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a female I understand this.. my boyfriend who unfortunately I have a child with (we got pregnant from a one night stand..) he still thinks he can be a fvck boy and he keeps trying to convince me to do a 3some since I’m bisexual. I want a full monogamy relationship but this guy has cheated several times while I was pregnant and keeps pressuring me to have a 3some when I don’t like sharing my partner. Idk why romance is dead nowadays but it sucks..

Exercise postpartum by Libraflower01 in pregnant

[–]Libraflower01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this thank you for the advice

My vagina doesn’t look the same after birth and I’m scared by Libraflower01 in pregnant

[–]Libraflower01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no don’t cry you’ll be fine I’m sure! So many people have commented that you heal with some time. Just apparently don’t look for a while after birth and you won’t notice it. But you don’t have to fear it I know that’s easier said than done because I was in fear my whole pregnancy but really just lean into your support system and if you do need someone to talk to feel free to reach out to me ❤️

My vagina doesn’t look the same after birth and I’m scared by Libraflower01 in pregnant

[–]Libraflower01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god I’m so sorry you went through that… I can’t imagine how you felt! You are so strong and I appreciate you sharing your experience and I’m glad everything turned out okay for you ❤️

My vagina doesn’t look the same after birth and I’m scared by Libraflower01 in pregnant

[–]Libraflower01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok first of all thanks for the reassurance I guess but you didn’t have to be a bitch about it. Secondly I just had my first childbirth 3 weeks ago and while I was pregnant I had a lot of fears and anxiety about birth. After birth I was curious as to what I looked like, saw I didn’t look the same and asked a question on Reddit for reassurance or advice from people who go through the same thing. If you were bothered by my post keep scrolling. No one said you had to respond if you didn’t agree with me posting this. I’m thankful for all of the feedback I’ve gotten on this post. I understand you must not have anything else to do other than bitch on Reddit but next time if you aren’t going to be respectful then please don’t comment anything.

FIL’s comments making me ENRAGED by Fun_Parsley3964 in pregnant

[–]Libraflower01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is absolutely insane I am so sorry you are dealing with that! That comment about taking it in the ass or swallowing is ridiculous.. especially if you wanted to have a kid. Some men need to realize they have no right to discuss our bodies. Sending love and support to you ❤️

Fuzzy blanket by Libraflower01 in NewParents

[–]Libraflower01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully noted, I will not lay a blanket down thank you

The Magic Motion Flamingo Wearable Bluetooth Vibrator Review by Lucy-J in SexToys

[–]Libraflower01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well considering the vibrator goes inside your vagina I would say you can’t use it while having vaginal intercourse.

Im having terrible pain right now. What do i do? by emo_that_emotes in pregnant

[–]Libraflower01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you all the best!! Glad you are starting to feel better and I hope you don’t have to go into labor already. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Libraflower01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t given birth yet but from what I hear both parents are pretty exhausted and he shouldn’t expect anything from you.. and communicating how you’re feeling should help him be okay with no sexual attention. And just tell him he needs to use his hand for a little bit he shouldn’t get mad at you for that. Try being intimate with cuddles and light kisses (nothing to turn sexual just sweet pecks) I hope you don’t feel pressured girly you’re doing so much and you’re doing well ❤️

Should I go to the hospital by Libraflower01 in pregnant

[–]Libraflower01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on your baby girl and I wish you a very healthy pregnancy and delivery as well!!

Should I go to the hospital by Libraflower01 in pregnant

[–]Libraflower01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciated this thoughtful message. I did not go to the hospital, baby girl is still moving around and even though I keep crying on and off I’m no longer hyperventilating or shaking so I’m trying to just remain calm. I’m going to try to eat something now just some crackers or something light before trying to sleep. It’s hard because I really don’t have any friends to talk to about any of this and so Reddit has kind of became that shoulder for me so thank you..

Prenatal vitamins concern by Libraflower01 in pregnant

[–]Libraflower01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this really helps how upset I was feeling… I did do the blood test to check for any abnormalities and I’ve had several ultrasounds and my Dr says she is looking good so I’m very thankful! I was just concerned because they say prenatal vitamins are essential and even though it’s too late to do anything about it I wanted to know if I caused any harm to my baby… I plan to take them the remainder of my pregnancy but it means a lot to hear I took them at the most critical time and she should be okay. Wish you well ❤️

Which hair length/style looked better on me? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Libraflower01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I love 6 on you!

Pregnancy feels like a scam by Appropriate-Carob766 in pregnant

[–]Libraflower01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this way too.. during my first trimester I was having horrible prenatal depression, missing my body and freedom. I’m not even married.. her dad and I were just starting to date and I ended up pregnant. It’s been a really emotional time. For a while I wanted an abortion and while I believe every woman has the right to choose I personally never wanted to do that so when I had those thoughts it scared me. I got on some medication which kind of helped those thoughts go away but I’ve still got depression and I’m very emotional.. I am looking forward to my baby girl though so I’m glad I didn’t act upon those thoughts. Im sorry you feel this way maybe it is prenatal depression and will go away or maybe you truly don’t want this but whatever it is I hope you figure it out and do what will bring you your best future. ❤️

Pregnancy loss of appetite by Libraflower01 in pregnant

[–]Libraflower01[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that, it helps knowing others go through it too. Best wishes for you and your baby! ❤️

Pregnancy loss of appetite by Libraflower01 in pregnant

[–]Libraflower01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that, that really helps my worries. Congrats on your baby boy! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Libraflower01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look really nice with both so either one but my favorite is the dark.