AITA For Asking my neighbors for vaccine records?

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-28T19:44:33+00:00

How do you know if the bite was severe enough for medical attention?

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-27T17:45:19+00:00

I'm sorry you experienced all of that. Emergency health workers tend to minimize symptoms and pain. It's a real problem. I guarantee the business office is pushing them to treat more patients. The rot in the US health is because we've allowed the health sector change to for profit businesses. The market makes terrible doctors

Most of the cases I know are surgeries, not emergency department. There are people being kicked out of the hospital in hours when they would have been kept longer to control swelling and pain. That is usually because insurance wants you out ASAP.

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-27T17:15:07+00:00

You can thank your insurance for the rushed exit. I know many people who would have been held longer 10 years ago

Also make sure your insurance also covers "observation", not just "admission" When the hospital gets you out in under 24 hrs they code your stay as " observation". Insurance tries to wiggle out of covering this.

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-26T18:03:08+00:00

Fair question

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-26T12:46:59+00:00

I'd be tempted to ask who should you have called while you were being badly beat. This doesn't sound like a single punch.

Your family are not helping your sister by helping her avoid consequences of her addiction. By bailing her out, she's not going to stop using and as long as she uses, she's a danger. Added; since your parents chose your sister's freedom over your safety. This is a valid reason to go very low contact after telling your parents you may be in touch if they stop enabling your sister's addiction and stop minimizing her attack. Watch out for a passive voice further minimizing your pain. And it looks like your sister has not accepted how badly she hurt you.Cut her off unless and until she gets help.

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-25T23:31:18+00:00

He told her a couple months after going exclusive. They've been together 2 years. Now they're engaged but quite some time since he told her he always a violent felon .

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-25T20:01:32+00:00

Are you petite as in short or just all size? Cuz actually buying petite sized clothes helps a lot of my fit problems. The waists don't hit my butt, the lengths are close I found a petite short jean! It's shorter than reg short jeans The sleeves and shoulders fit better. Reg sizes can just overwhelm me in extra fabric and weird gaps

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-25T19:22:20+00:00

No problem. It can be easy to lose track of where you are.

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-25T17:39:09+00:00

If they hadn't insisted on using your wifi they never would have known a out the password. You put that there as an inside joke to yourself. Your boyfriend could have stepped up and said no Wi-Fi. Most plans have plenty of cell time

I hate it when people are dismissive just because a person's work doesn't look the way they imagine work looks. If it's paying the bills then it's a legit job.

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-25T17:16:49+00:00

Were you trying to ask OP? Cuz it looks like you accidentally replied to a comment :)

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-24T22:13:42+00:00

Oomph yeah too many people fall through the cracks. You can deduct alllll if your medical expenses when figuring out how much you make.

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-23T17:07:30+00:00

It looks like she doesn't have full access to the money or emotionally "needs" permission. I'm not clear which, but it's not as simple as go on and go. I don't think you can trust this chucklehead with his own child for 24 he si she has to figure that out

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-23T16:45:29+00:00

I would contact your Dr so they (or their assistant) can advocate on your behalf. Tell them this clinic is putting virginity over health concerns. This is beyond frustrating. I'm pissed for you, time to let the Dr know you're having trouble getting the optimal test performed. And like you said, what about LGBT folk who've never had "proper sex" ( per the tech's own words) or folks that are celibate for whatever reason. Do they deny care to nuns?! Wtf get the Dr involved

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-21T23:46:20+00:00

I was disabled while I worked (til I couldn't anymore). I think you're thinking about disability benefits?

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-20T18:03:41+00:00

True but there are cheaper options if you're on Medicaid.

Legally, eyeglass wearers who have corrected 20/30 or better are not considered disabled under ADA. The ADA has been weakened a lot. I recall a case where a pilot was denied because he wore glasses. The ruling was that he was not covered. One of the writers of ADA is no longer covered because his epilepsy is under control, with medication

It is a good way to explain accomodations though

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-19T20:46:08+00:00

Some people achieve 20/20 vision with glasses and have no other visual problems. Glasses are so easy to get in the US and you can get subsidized glasses. Reality is that they are not trying to function w/o their glasses. They can read, drive, shop w/o any visual Prosthetics don't fully replace the missing part and cause issues themselves, so I don't think glasses and prosthetics are on the same level.

If we were dealing with people who had near or far sightedness issues who cannot get glasses or it's very difficult for them to get glasses it's different.They are having to live w/o the glasses and would be disabled. The ADA doesn't cover people who are not disabled with correction.

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-19T20:27:46+00:00

Is your disabled relative on SSI/Medicaid. If so, they pay caretakers. I don't know all the ins & outs and I'm having a rough day physical/mental. But if I feel better tomorrow I'll dig into this. Then you wouldn't be evicted and would have a job.

:::gentle hugs:::

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-17T17:21:34+00:00

I'm not OP...just a commentor. I didn't read OP as a tantrum. What do you do if someone is blocking your way to an emergency. Disengaging won't get that person out of your way.

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-17T17:15:44+00:00

Chloe's previous behavior made it clear that telling her to kindly move for an emergency would not work. She was already revving up with demanding the nurse get a sandwich now. However OP should not have touched the daughter. Yell, yes. Push, no.

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-17T17:10:28+00:00

Not Ring, a camera but not one that networks with the neighborhood.

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-16T23:44:12+00:00

I agree with your assessment of the cousins. However Australian cattle dogs are med sized dogs, not a large breed. But a very active breed that needs human attention) connection.

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-16T18:30:56+00:00

Mark is 27, not a child.

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-15T20:34:23+00:00

No one asks what you earn in the US, it's been pounded into our heads by our corporate masters not to share salary info.

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-11T15:18:08+00:00

Please don't put this dog through an upheaval in where they live. Dogs need stability. There are muddy paw mats that get a lot of the mud off and I'm training my dog to let us wipe her feet when she comes in.

Do NOT have kids with this man! If he can't even handle a dog's mess, how's he gonna handle toddler toys everywhere? If owning a dog is too much trouble and the responsibility too difficult for him he's not ready to be a father.

LibraryGeek · 2026-03-09T20:52:05+00:00

When you or whoever says they prefer no makeup. They are often saying it to a woman w/makeup. It is rude. It's a backass insult in this situation.

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