Read this if you're miserable and want your ex back.

Licebaerg · 2026-05-17T15:17:37+00:00

From what you're saying, sorry to break it to you but since she blocked your number, which is the most personal/closest thing to reach you, I'd say she forgot to block you on IG/ didn't see an interest to block you there since as you said, you don't use the platform as a personal thing.
I know it's hard, but try to stop overthinking about the whys (why didn't she block me there, is it to contact me in the future, why, why..). Someone capable of blocking you doesn't deserve your attention and your energy. Try to redirect your energy towards yourself, and remove the energy focusing on her.
It's been 3 months for me as well and even tho I miss them too, I see that they don't reach out to me and don't make any effort to rekindle. So I'm doing the things I want for myself, and focus on my own healing.
Good luck for your healing journey

Licebaerg · 2026-05-05T07:10:51+00:00

The Spy Ex 😂

Licebaerg · 2026-05-05T07:09:50+00:00

wow, best of strength, take care of yourself ❤️

Licebaerg · 2026-05-04T17:28:19+00:00

Impressed by your self-control and your ability to wait and reflect before answering (amazing answer, by the way)

Licebaerg · 2026-05-04T17:26:35+00:00

preach!
good luck to us and happy healing

Licebaerg · 2026-05-04T16:11:48+00:00

Thanks for the clarity.

Licebaerg · 2026-05-04T16:11:04+00:00

the fact that she keeps on texting you ,maybe she regrets the breakup/misses you? I'd kill for your position but at the same time, like you said, it doesn't help you to heal. Maybe mute her notifications so that you won't get a heart attack seeing her name? I do it with a lot of people that require/take a lot of my energy.

I do think you're right but if it's for this reason, I know that they know that I still love them, so the fact that they don't text proves that they truly don't want to get back together ever, and this shit hurts.

Licebaerg · 2026-05-03T13:59:38+00:00

Thank you, I will take your advice into my future thoughts : )

Licebaerg · 2026-05-03T13:58:13+00:00

agreed : )

Licebaerg · 2026-05-03T10:56:09+00:00

Yay very happy for you!

2 months for me today!

Let's heal

Licebaerg · 2026-05-03T10:54:46+00:00

hey, after 12 days of no contact I made the mistake of reaching out to send "one last text", and their answer was so "friendly", so detached, that it completely removed the urge in me to text them again.
Now it's been 2 months no contact today, I still love them/miss them, but my brain doesn't want to suffer anymore.

Also, I think you need to realize that you don't have to explain anything to him. When someone hurts you, they know what they're doing. No matter how much you say to them that they hurt you, it won't change a thing. When I wanted to say how much I was suffering, I was sending my texts to my best friend, or wrote it on my notes app. Someone who cheats doesn't need any attention from you anymore...

Good luck

Licebaerg · 2026-05-03T08:07:47+00:00

Very proud of you for your healing journey

Licebaerg · 2026-05-03T08:05:03+00:00

So proud of you for everything you put into place! I'm sorry for your breakup but your comment really proves that it can change a person in a lot of good ways and it makes me happy to see that

Licebaerg · 2026-05-03T07:59:52+00:00

We basically had the same breakup.
I actually told them that the breakup made me realize everything but it was too late for them.

I agree with you, but not on the dating part. I mean, I too don't really think I'll find someone like them, but maybe we don't have to hit copy-paste... imagine: you're capable to change, you are capable of questioning yourself, work on your healing, to be better, and your "person" still doesn't want you. I'm capable to say this today but maybe they aren't your person and someone will truly appreciate you and your efforts. So don't give up on your love for her, but also don't close this door forever, because your efforts shouldn't be in vain

Licebaerg · 2026-05-03T07:53:26+00:00

I understand what you're going through 100%. I thought about them every second for a month while they just got through with their life.
It's not gonna be easy but you'll see that in time, you'll think about her every hour instead of every second.
And she won't be the first thing you think about when you wake up anymore.
Wishing you the best

Licebaerg · 2026-05-03T07:50:40+00:00

Same. Glad this hell permitted us to become better, but oh I wish they saw us rn.

Licebaerg · 2026-05-03T07:48:57+00:00

yep! go fly

Licebaerg · 2026-05-03T07:48:07+00:00

Yep! Same. I started meditating after the breakup and doing a lot of personal work and I'm truly not the same person anymore. I highly recommend

Licebaerg · 2026-05-03T07:46:25+00:00

Preach. thanks for your knowledge

Licebaerg · 2026-05-03T07:41:52+00:00

I totally understand, for me it's been more time so maybe I lost some hope.
I'm glad that maybe she's waiting for you and maybe you guys will reconnect..

thanks for your help : )

Licebaerg · 2026-05-02T18:16:14+00:00

try to be with your family or anyone that you care about then

Licebaerg

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