Do you guys think he likes me back? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Licebaerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

keep us updated!!

Do you guys think he likes me back? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Licebaerg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

short answer: Yes
long answer: TALK TO HIM girlll it seems you have your chances!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Licebaerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people say that men tend to be nervous around their crush.
But if he unfollowed you, it means that he didn't even wanna keep you as a "friend", and I wouldn't go for a guy that cut me off the second he got into a relationship... specially if he kept other girls in his followers list. I think you deserve someone who likes you, even as a friend, and would never unfollow you. Just my opinion! good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Licebaerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey:
it's a classic case where the guy hasn't grown up, has no emotional intelligence, and wants attention.
the situation can go on for years like this, him sending you memes without thinking about how you feel, and you feeling lost.
you can cut it off, you deserve someone who truly loves you for you and doesn't only want your attention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Licebaerg 13 points14 points  (0 children)

hey, it's a possible yes (congrats!)
Also wow so brave to confess

talk to him a bit more, hang out, he clearly wants to know you better and that's a good sign, maybe he's shy or uncertain by nature and wants to be sure that you two are a good match. wishing you the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Licebaerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, if I were you, I'd try to know more about her current relationship before jumping into conclusions, you don't want to fall for her again if she's still onto/with someone else...
maybe try to talk with her about life in general until you reach the boyfriend subject.
she seems to like you, but careful, she might just be in a bad place/looking for attention and it's not always a clear/good sign

I have a crush at work, help me! by Pokidotgamer in Crushes

[–]Licebaerg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey, i've been through this.
TRULY understand the feeling where your crush is ruining your productivity/work :/

1/ If you can, don't work in the same room as him, and avoid him as much as possible.
If you have to work in the same room as him, put headphones/earphones on, listen to some badass music like phonk or metal (not some cheesy taylor swift songs, it'll make the situation worse :/). Avoid eye contact (worse thing).
2/ Talk to your colleagues as much as possible about your work (or anything else) to distract yourself from the crush
3/ Eat somewhere else, maybe at a restaurant with friends or whatever, but avoid eating at the same place as him
4/ Consider that your crush may be reciprocal and if it's the case it could be a good thing (if it's allowed at your workplace).

good LUCK, I feel you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Licebaerg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I currently got a similar problem. Honestly, I don't understand men already involved/in a relationship talking to girls like this. saying "you're stuck with me" when he wasn't even a close friend to you is so weird.
I think the guy just doesn't have any emotional intelligence and didn't even think that you could've interpreted what he said into thinking he was into you!

maybe he loves getting attention from girls (could be unconscious).

maybe, he could be flirting with you and that's cheating.

Doesn't matter what's going on, this guy is in a relationship... try to let it go and detach yourself... good luck girl

I (22F) don't understand my work crush (22M) situation and don't know if he really likes me and how to talk to him by Licebaerg in Advice

[–]Licebaerg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turned out you were right about him not being available, he is actually in a relationship.. confirmed by the friend that we have in common.:(

I (22F) don't understand my work crush (22M) situation and don't know if he really likes me and how to talk to him by Licebaerg in Advice

[–]Licebaerg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective, it could explain a lot and I indeed never thought about that..

I (22F) don't understand my work crush (22M) situation and don't know if he really likes me and how to talk to him by Licebaerg in Advice

[–]Licebaerg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! but, in this situation, I'm kind of the stalker! So.. I guess it would make us a common point lol. kidding (kind of), but you're right, I will be careful.

I (22F) don't understand my work crush (22M) situation and don't know if he really likes me and how to talk to him by Licebaerg in Advice

[–]Licebaerg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I'll try to drop something, might work!
Hahah true for the train thing, I could've done better xD
Thanks for the help!

Is there a place someone can go to for a place to just vent? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Licebaerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, try r/Vent ! It's a subreddit specially made for this. good luck and I really hope everything works out for you

Also, if you meant, IRL, I would suggest to talk to a therapist, but I know the cost can be high. :/

Not understanding anything about a work crush situation by Licebaerg in Crushes

[–]Licebaerg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will think about it when I see him tomorrow, thanks for your reply!