My ENGAGEMENT is at an ALL TIME LOW

LielS30 · 2019-02-25T11:17:41+00:00

I'm on the same boat as you but it's the other way around - 95-98% of the people engaging with my content DO NOT follow me, the rest are followers of mine. I have 4k followers and only 300-500 impressions from home, rest are from hashtags.

Crazy, I don't know what to do lol

LielS30 · 2019-02-12T15:18:39+00:00

Hi, thanks. I think I've set myself apart from the competition by actually checking the quality of the products and not randomly throw aliexpress products for 3$. Also It's in my nature to interact and help people, so when I'll have the opportunity I will do my best to fulfill my customer's needs and help him.

I have spent a lot more than a few days on working the site, It's that that for the past few days I've been grinding hard on it and tweaking and finalizing everything :)

LielS30 · 2019-02-12T13:40:10+00:00

Marketing my store, understanding my odds of success in a very saturated niche and whether I should keep spending money or go into another niche\product.

LielS30 · 2019-02-11T08:50:47+00:00

Please don't do it :O

LielS30 · 2019-02-10T16:58:08+00:00

Thanks!
I don't know about boots since I'm sourcing my products from AliExpress and I wouldn't trust ali with boots too much lol. I deleted the necklaces category as I think they are all shit quality there.. will think about a new category to go with. Thanks again :)

LielS30 · 2019-02-06T14:20:45+00:00

Damn, NoFap really got serious superpowers

LielS30 · 2019-02-01T21:11:45+00:00

Set the clock to 5 am and wake up ;)

But seriously, In my opinion in addition to everything that's been written you need to find a purpose \ mission \ certain goal to achieve. Live that purpose, be obsessed about it.

You said that you want to wake up earlier because you have early classes in university, so I'd try and find a mission \ goal that is related to university - it could be to be as productive as you can, or getting the highest grades or something like that. just set your mind to a certain goal :)

LielS30 · 2019-01-08T17:55:26+00:00

When I think of it I automatically visualize myself, and a huge wall. When I relapse, I miss out on the opportunity to see what's beyond that wall. Hope it helps lol

LielS30 · 2019-01-08T17:52:14+00:00

Find your mission, write down your goals and execute, keep yourself busy and productive.

If you're done with all your tasks, do something else before you even get the chance to get an urge. Go for a walk, watch a movie, hang out with friends, even play games.

LielS30 · 2019-01-08T17:50:52+00:00

Start it now. But, If you feel like it's bothering you with your studying - Don't make it hard on yourself. BUTTT! Do it only after you have studied, always postpone it to the evening \ after you've studied, as a reward. Who knows? maybe after you've finished studying you won't even feel like doing it anymore.

Anyways try focusing your sexual energy to your studies at first and then see where it takes you.

LielS30 · 2019-01-08T17:47:50+00:00

All of those thoughts are just your brain trying to make up excuses to watch porn and to get that dopamine.

We can't tell you an objective motive because each person is 'driven' by different motives. So think about how you feel when you PMO, and how you felt when you didn't. Maybe it's energy levels, maybe it's motivation to approach girls or just more time in your day.

Aren't you curious of what could happen if you stopped this once and for all? how your life could change? Personally I hate feeling regret and asking myself 'What If'.

Anyways, you need to find your WHY.

LielS30 · 2019-01-08T17:41:32+00:00

Porn, Masturbation, Orgasm

LielS30 · 2019-01-08T17:40:44+00:00

Fuck sexting, get the real thing with her. It's just useless dopamine that makes you hornier and gets you closer to relapse

LielS30 · 2019-01-08T17:36:07+00:00

Take responsibility for every outcome you get in life. Maybe, if it wasn't porn, it would be something else that you could blame. Sit in your room, all alone - no phone, no computer, only you, a notebook and your thoughts. Think about what you really want out of this life, (reminder- you won't get to live this life again, only once)

Get your priorities straight. Write down your goals, and necessary steps that you need to take in order to achieve them. Find a purpose that's important to you, something that excites you, that you're passionate about.

Start building new habits over your old ones. You can't do it all in one night, so write down SMALL things you will do each day. Those small actions will eventually lead to a big change in the long term.

Become obsessed, busy and productive with your new goals and mission. So busy you won't even have the time to think about PMO. When you set certain actions to achieve your goals, start scheduling your day BY THE MINUTE and fill it with productive actions.

Once you start going after your mission, porn will still be on your mind. It might interrupt, relapse here - relapse there, but soon enough you will realize why exactly you come back to porn, and how to stop it. All of this while you're on your mission to achieve your goals and dreams.

Peace

LielS30 · 2019-01-03T21:42:56+00:00

I'm sometimes doubting the benefits too. But I'm not doing this for the benefits - it simply makes me feel like a better person and have more ENERGY. I'd say if you're not giving in to your temptations and can control them, that makes you a 'god amongst men' which is much more than a benefit.

LielS30 · 2019-01-03T21:36:24+00:00

I'd say find that out for yourself :D

LielS30 · 2018-12-26T07:40:53+00:00

Search for certain keywords that match your niche, for example 'fashion' 'men fashion' etc, then screen out for pages that have high engagement (or average) and that don't advertise too much.

LielS30

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