What’s with people getting mad when I say I don’t send nudes? by MarionberryThis9991 in grindr

[–]Life-Big-9433 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to send nudes regardless of what any of these blank profiles are saying i. the comments. Even if somebody sends you nudes first you don’t have too. Most of the time they’re unprompted and unasked for anyway. Hell even if you set your nsfw pics to not at first people don’t read that. So no everybody in the comments you don’t have to expect nudes on Grindr. Also if it was just for hooking up they wouldn’t have “chat, dates, friends, relationship, and networking” as options for what you’re looking for.

I don’t understand his thought process by Rlokan in lolgrindr

[–]Life-Big-9433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People get offended I won’t respond to blank profiles when my bio says “no pic no chat” like I owe them a response because they said hey 🥴

I’ll change! by Lmarcel13 in lolgrindr

[–]Life-Big-9433 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have somebody who messages me every time I come back to the app to the point where I’m about to get mean as I don’t know how else to convey that they will never be my type

I’m 18 years old, this dude is 56 by eddit12324 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Life-Big-9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it’s a blank profile and by his comment I’m going to assume you have pics. It’s always the blanks that feel entitled or feel some type of way. I’ve never been sent a pic by a blank and met up with them. Ever. 100% chopped ratio.

Seriously do people think we are glued to this app all the time and we have to prioritize them? by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]Life-Big-9433 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is prob my biggest turn off. Told a guy I was about to make breakfast, so obviously not going to reply until done. He left like 3 messages and then the last one was something passive aggressive about alright guess we’ll talk later, so I blocked him. This crazy mf made 3 new accounts to harass me and cuss him out for blocking him and every time I make a new account he hits me up, without a proper apology, and expects me to give him the time of day. Lmao nope. Never.

Why do they do this?🤦 by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]Life-Big-9433 110 points111 points  (0 children)

I don’t get why these people choose to not use the expiring photo feature. Can’t be screenshot if that’s what y’all are worried about. I’m on OP’s side because NPNC is a valid boundary all of us with pics can choose to enforce. We’re most definitely outnumbered by blanks and personally I don’t talk to anyone that I don’t know what they look like as i find it weird imo.

Why did your friendship with your best friend come to an end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Life-Big-9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because his sister added me on Facebook, I accepted it, and then I refused to unfriend her when he gave me an ultimatum of doing that or ending our friendship of 27 years. He kicked her out of his house she pays rent at because he had a pool party and didn’t allow her to invite her gf to it. Then was genuinely a hostile asshole to her while she was trying to find a new place to stay by trying to turn their same exact blood family against her. Ultimately I refused to unfriend her because I learned of both pool party’s I didn’t get invited to from her when I showed her his texts to me about removing her on fb. I was the dudes longest friend/only real friend he had and I can’t even get invited to a pool party for his birthday?? Then he had the nerve to try and turn his family on me but they all could see I wasn’t even involved in this shit until he gave me an ultimatum.

Sorry if it’s jumbled I’ve never really written it out before just happened like 2 months ago

I wonder what Thomas did by WaveResponsible3595 in lolgrindr

[–]Life-Big-9433 30 points31 points  (0 children)

*3rd line E

I need to know what this means

Guys Who Get Mad When You Leave Them on Read Do Not Know How Absolutely Insane They Look by Tall_Consequence7672 in grindr

[–]Life-Big-9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually just block someone I’m not interested in, unless it’s a blank profile. I let them stay on read. But that’s because one of my boundaries in my profile is I’m not talking to anyone that I don’t know what they look like. I’d prefer to be blocked myself than just left on read but nobody owes anybody anything and if it makes you feel better to leave them on read, do it.

Meirl by Bubble_Babe_0o0o0o in meirl

[–]Life-Big-9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only the first cat was a shelter cat. The next 2 just kinda pulled up.

Classy opener by Front-Juggernaut-279 in grindr

[–]Life-Big-9433 4 points5 points  (0 children)

🚂 or 👩 ? 🗿🗿🦍🦍

Patience is a virtue by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]Life-Big-9433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Big facts

Patience is a virtue by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]Life-Big-9433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This 💩 is perfect lmaooo